I have a girlfriend that is older than my by 10 years. I feel threatened when she speaks of ex-boyfriends and their accomplishments. It bothers me that she interacts with so many guys anyway. She allways said she talked down to many young men before and now I broke through the barrier with exquisite timing. I love her alot. She tells me she loves me. Why do I feel so many insecurities? But, she spends so much time with me. And she comes to my aid so much that there really should be no second thoughts about where her heart is. Is it me that I don't trust?
2006-09-23 11:17:12 · 2 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
An insecurity such as this stems from your past experience with relationships- starting from when you were a kid.... you think you are not worthy of someone who seems too good to be true....and for real.
You basically answered your own question.
Relax and enjoy....age is just a number. Jealousy towards past relationships is normal....most of us feel that way....look ahead and make what you guys have special by focusing on the here and now....and on each other. Shake it off whenever you start obsessing about other people in her life. No one has control over somebody else's past.
2006-09-23 11:29:16 · answer #1 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you don't feel worthy of her love.
2006-09-23 11:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋