if she cuts me off for more than a few days a guy has the right then to fool around and get it from some other woman right??? like there is no way I should have to feel guilty and I still will be there when she decides to get real and have sex with me again right?
2006-09-23 11:29:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
shut up!
2006-09-23 11:34:46 · answer #1 · answered by Smiles 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're asking if your girlfriend doesn't have sex with you after a few days, then you have the right to have sex with someone else? Did you ask her why she doesn't want to have sex with you? Maybe it's something medical, maybe an unresolved issue between the two of you. You should ask her why; but before you do that, ask yourself what kind of relationship you have with her. If you're both in it just for the sex, well- whatever! But if you're in a real relationship with her, would this be acceptable to you if the situation were reversed? It sounds like you're more concerned about the sex and absolving yourself of any guilt. You want permission to go and mess around with someone else. If you are involved with her, do yourselves both a favor and move on.
2006-09-23 18:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say that applies to an excessive amount of time. A few days, no, but a month or two, then yeah, you have to go get yours in my opinion. The guilt factor is really overrated, after a month or 2 of no sex, getting some on the side will help you stay in the relationship.
All the women here will rip you a new one for asking this question, american women. In lots of other countries it's perfectly normal. Live your own life.
2006-09-23 18:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by WestCoastin4Life 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, Time to totally P.O. the ladies....
OK two scenarios:
1) you did something really making her not want you right now: OK, maybe she'll get over it, maybe not.
2) She's using sex as leverage to get you to do or be something: I've got to say this, if sex is a bargaining chip in the relationship, then it is reduced to a comodity, not a cherished sharing of the physical with the emotional. Thusly, then it is subject to alternate source. In other words, she's dishonored it before you do by looking elsewhere. Personally, If I'm dating and sex gets cut off in some damn power play, then the relationship is over and I'm free to do as I please.
Decide which of these two it is and act accordingly
2006-09-23 18:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by lmcbuilder 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No you not suppose to go and get it from someone else you should find out is she sick or got other problem then let her know how you feel and see do she want to stay in a relationship or for you to go get you another woman.
2006-09-23 18:34:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No
If she has "cut you off" then you two either need to fix your relationship or end it. Then you need to be Alone for six months before you'll be ready to go out again.
2006-09-23 19:59:22 · answer #6 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get real, not her. Are you in a comitted relationship or not, shallow boy? You have no right to anybodies booty until your married to them. You're part of what's wrong with society, not her.
2006-09-23 18:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wrong. There is no excuse for having an affair. If you don't want the relationship any more then get a divorce.
2006-09-23 18:32:11 · answer #8 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This question reminds me that the human gene pool needs a good dose of chlorine.
2006-09-23 18:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by OleMarbleEyes 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no... be a man and leave her if its the only thing you are there for bro. if thats all it takes for you to cheat... do her the favor and leave her. thats what a man would do.. then you can play alllllll you want to. but dont hurt people ... just because youre mad
2006-09-23 18:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by pencilnbrush 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get real
all you want her for is sex
so why bother asking the question
2006-09-23 18:37:39 · answer #11 · answered by JAMES OY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋