Ive liked this guy for 2 years now..and everytime we talk and see eachother we always flirt and get along really well. Everyone knows I like him and can tell that he's into me too. But i dont understand...Ive made it so obvious that i like him..does he still not see it or does he just not want to go out with me?! I need some serious advice. I cant keep waiting for him...but i know hes the perfect guy for me. He possesses all the qualities i look for in a guy.
2006-09-23 11:20:29 · 16 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So~ what are you waiting for? Ask him to dinner!
So simple...
2006-09-23 11:25:12 · answer #1 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may possess all the qualities you think you want, but he lacks the ability to step up. That could be for a lot of reasons, so I will instead tell you that you need to talk to him and only him. Tell him that it seems to you as though you both enjoy being around each other and ask if he is interested in pursuing something more than a flirtatious friendship. If he says 'no' it may hurt but at least you can stop torturing yourself and move on. Or if he says 'yes'... well, I'm sure you would be elated. Just make sure that even if you do start dating, that you are not always the one pushing the relationship along. He needs to be an equal partner and sometimes even take the lead. Best of luck!
2006-09-23 11:40:22 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy has taken this long to show any interest, dont wait for him any longer. It doesnt mean that he doesnt care for you at all, or doesnt like spending time with you. When a guy likes a girl, he usually does everything to get noticed by her and makes it a point to try and make her something MORE than a friend. Don't continue building his ego and move on. It doesnt mean that you cant be friends, but it does mean you need to accept dates from others and live your own life.
2006-09-23 11:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by mmse24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's the perfect guy for you he would have brought up the subject already... if there's a reason why he hasn't asked you out... he would probably tell you... the perfect guy wouldn't keep a longing girl waiting without a good reason...
the only thing to do now is to tell him yourself... tell him that you know he knows how you feel... if he pretends to look clueless say it straight out that you've liked him for a while now and you want to know how he feels about that... about you... and if there will be anything in the future that you could look forward to... i spent a lot of my time waiting for someone but it never happened.... don't waste your nights waiting for the answer... find it yourself...
g'luck
2006-09-23 11:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by ju5sm3h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you should just talk to him and find out how he feels about you or if he is with someone else maybe that is the reason why he has not approached you in that way. he may be the perfect guy for you but he may not be ready to be in a committed relationship and don't want to hurt you and want to stay friends until he is ready to get serious so just talk to him and find out where his head is before you waste all your time waiting on something that may not be attainable.
2006-09-23 11:35:24 · answer #5 · answered by chocolatefancier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just shy or maybe he is seeing someone else. Ask him out and see what his answer is. What do you have to lose?? Either he will go out with you or he will say no and give you a reason why. Either way you will get an answer as to if you need to continue or move on. Good Luck!!
2006-09-23 11:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So My advice right now, Is assumming he 100% likes you.
He's probably too Shy to ask you out. So you ask him out. Problem Solved.
2006-09-23 11:24:20 · answer #7 · answered by ampzphd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't ask you out for fear of rejection. Try dropping a few subtle hints that you'd like to go out with him and see where it leads.
2006-09-23 11:25:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking from a males perspective, we are dumb and slow, it may seem like you are being obvious, but it's probably going over his head, just front up and ask him out
either that or he's gay
2006-09-23 11:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your obvious might not be so obvious to him. I think you should tell him or ask him out yourself. good luck..use your chances lose that pride.
2006-09-23 11:23:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋