Okay, Me And This Guy Dated For About 8 1/2 Months. And I Assumed We Were Great Together. Well One Day He Randomly Broke Up With Me And Never Really Explained To Me Why. Well We Had A Rouch Patch For A While And Stopped Talking. We Started Talking Recently And He Is Acting The Same Way Towards Me As We Did When We Were Going Out. And When I Try To Ask Him He Gets Mad And Hangs Up On Me Alot. And He Likes To Start Fights With Me. Well A New Guy Recently Walked Into My Life, And He Treats Me The Way I Want To Be Treated But I Can't Seem To Let This Other Guy Go. I Just Don't Know What It Is. He Also Happens To Like My Best Friend {Which He Has No Chance With}. But He Acts The Same Way And I Sort Of Like The Way He Acts, Even Though Were Not Together. I Don't Know What To Do. Tell The Guy I Love That I Just Can't Do It Anymore [ Even Though He Claims To Love Me] Or Go With The New Guy [Who We Both Mutually Like Each Other]???
2006-09-23 11:30:47 · 11 answers · asked by cierra91 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your boyfriend of 8 1/2 months has no communication skills. Anyone who hangs up on you when you ask him any question doesn't respect you. Sorry, otherwise he would care enough to answer your question. He sounds very immature and doesn't sound like he will change. I don't think you ever had much of a relationship with him, considering he doesn't really communicate.
Be careful about the other guy. He likes your friend? how is that going to affect your friendship? make sure he really doesn't like your friend, because that could get weird.
Good luck!
2006-09-23 11:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all if you are only dating someone for 81/2 months its not considered a relationship. a relationship is when 2 people go together talk to each other,make time to be together. what you are describing is not a relationship at all. if this guy treats you like this now can you imagine yourself married to him 5 to 10 years from now? i cant . when someone breaks off with you with no reason as to why its usually a sign that this guy is not willing to be serious with you and you need to find someone who is willing if this other guy that you are seeing now is then the best advice i can give you is to forget about this first guy and focus on the one you have now dont make the one you have now feel like he is second in your life or he might leave you to with no reason dont worry about this other girl worry only about yourself dump this first guy and dont worry how it makes you feel because iam sure hes not thinking about the way you feel right now nad
2006-09-23 18:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by Ann C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The old boyfriend is extremely immature and you should tell him to talk to you when he has grown up. In the meantime, explore your feelings for the new guy and take one day at a time.
2006-09-23 18:42:02 · answer #3 · answered by mitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your old boyfirend. Stop talking to him. See where it goes with the new guy, if that doesn't work out... there are plenty of fish in the sea.
2006-09-23 18:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by Whiskeygirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the old 1 n make frnds with the new 1 coz the old 1 is a A*****le show him this= ,,!,
2006-09-23 18:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by Angad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO WITH THE NEW GUY 4 SURE....ITS OBVIOUS UR STILL CRUSHING OVER THE OLD GUY BUT THATS GONNA HAPPEN AND HE OBVIOUSLY DOSNT WANT TO GET INVOLED AGAIN
2006-09-23 19:55:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He seems very unpredictable and probably dangerous.
2006-09-23 18:33:58 · answer #7 · answered by Ayliann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him and get u a real man
2006-09-23 18:38:06 · answer #8 · answered by repo1012002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2006-09-23 18:39:46 · answer #9 · answered by ♥charlies angel♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2nd guy!!! 1ste should grow up!!
2006-09-23 18:42:22 · answer #10 · answered by Simone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋