Ok this is how the situation went... I asked my new co-worker out; lets say Wednesday to see a comedy show on the weekend but she said she was busy. Thursday comes around and she confronted me verfying that I wanted to take her out yesterday and I said yes. So then she tells me that she is dating someone for the past 7 years but they are not ingaged/married. So I kept my cool but then Monday comes and she asks me if i wanted to catch a movie and have dinner this weekend (she mentioned as friends) and of course I said yes. Let me remind you, we enjoy each others company at work and we both can't stop smiling to one another. Can someone tell me how do they perceive this situation as? Does she has interests in me or is this a casual thing "friends" do. I have never came across a "friend" that wanted to go out with me even though she is seeing someone. Help me out.
2006-09-23 11:27:46 · 6 answers · asked by T Daddy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Very simple! You are intriguing to her.
If this girl has been on the hook with this guy for 7 years then it would seem maybe they are only the "friends".
She has thought about your initial invite and she has thought about you over the short period of time she has had. She doesn't want to lose the opportunity to be with you.
Prove to her that you are the man, steal her, lay her and become the hero of the office.
You rock the world dude! Young & Verile go for it!
2006-09-23 12:19:54 · answer #1 · answered by r g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has a boyfriend she has been seeing for seven years and they're not engaged or married. Sounds like she's awake now and smelling the coffee about that asleep at the wheel relationship.
Be nothing more than friends until she ends that relationship. sounds like she may be looking for a way out. Jumping into a relationship with you is not a good way out for her. Even though I'm sure you're a great catch.
She needs to stand on her own two feet before she's good enough for you.
2006-09-23 11:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by booktender 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is seriously involved with the guy of seven years yet she likes you but can't find time to go out with you. May be she can't think of a lie to tell her man. Are they living together? She is in a relationship just find someone else sweetheart
2006-09-23 12:01:20 · answer #3 · answered by confused 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is guy's can't be friends with girls, as easily as girls can be friends with guys (too many chemicals involved). So I would say go on a date with her and see how it goes. Then take it step by step. Let her make the first move. Be strong and don't act too interested.
2006-09-23 11:37:09 · answer #4 · answered by WJW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes she can be very unhappy in this relationship and needs an outlet.. I would not try to start something more that just a casual friendship because you might get you feeling hurt on this one... and hell simply ask her straight up .. why.. what is her real status? living with him? sexual? ask her.. put her butt on the hot seat so you will know where you stand.. you have choice
2006-09-23 11:38:12 · answer #5 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like she really doesn't know what she wants... a little confused.. I wish I could tell you more. Just see where it goes.... and enjoy each other's company. Maybe there will come the right time to ask her about it more in depth...
2006-09-23 11:31:13 · answer #6 · answered by ray of sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think she just want to be a friend -- enjoy it
2006-09-23 11:32:08 · answer #7 · answered by gabby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋