Family & Relationships - 20 September 2006

did you end up with the guy or girl or did they go back to their partner?

2006-09-20 07:29:31 · 12 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

over the summer i lost my virginity to a guy that was good friends with my sister. now i'm totally in love with him and now he's been avoiding me and recently told me he was going out of town for two weeks. The very next day i saw him while i was in traffic.

2006-09-20 07:28:46 · 5 answers · asked by mzvirgo19 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 07:28:43 · 20 answers · asked by bongomeye 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here goes! I am living with someone who doesn't care how I feel or what I say, and never comes home until late at night and doesn't have time to call me during the day. I came to the conclusion that we are just not meant to be so I went on Vacation this weekend to visit my friend, just to get away, and I met this guy at a club we went to and we hit it off right away and I left the next day and he has called me twice and I just can't stop thinking about him???? He came from no where????? I wasn't even looking, I was just out to have a good time with my friends? Is this normal to feel attracted so much that he is all I can think about?

2006-09-20 07:28:19 · 6 answers · asked by heart2heart27958 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 07:28:09 · 11 answers · asked by karrajp85 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a problem with my sister in law and she wants to fight and shes pregnant can some one please help me!!

2006-09-20 07:27:35 · 13 answers · asked by nancy 1 in Family

2006-09-20 07:26:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-20 07:26:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, I'm being my typical fretful self again.... I feel like the poster child for the "bottomless pit" personality. This really only applies to my sweet husband. If he is acting normal I am a completely competent and confident person. If he is acting weird... which to me is tired, stressed, or disinterested... and he is not acting loving to me, I totally spaz and wonder what in the world is wrong with me. I wish I could feel comfortable enough in my own skin not to feel like I needed constant affirmation from him. It is really frustrating and sad. I know in my mind that I am a creation of God, so I have to be special and wonderful in and of myself, but it is really hard to put it into practice. I guess when things don't feel 'right' you just go back to what is primal to you and feeling this way is that for me. I really do want to change it so that my life doesn't spin out of control with 'his' every emotion. How do I keep from catastrophizing everything?

2006-09-20 07:25:40 · 7 answers · asked by happylittlemom 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-20 07:25:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have been together for 5 months and are living together. He says she is a good friend and that they just slept together once but didnt take it to a relationship. The last time they spoke he called her from the airport before my plane landed and spoke for 1/2 hour (until my plane landed) (yes i checked his phone) When i told him it upset me he said not to give him an ultimatum (i hadnt yet) that if I told him to stop talking to her then we'd break up. He says "its not about her its about trust issues that I have that will not end with just that one girl." Is this him bull shiiting or is he right? Seems wrong though, regardless of the reason, that he would end our relationship just to talk to some girl. (by the way she is in the middle of a divorce!) He has asked me to meet her so it cant be bad right? Also, she IM'd him and he told her me and him were back together and she said "thats cool" nothing bad at all. She def didnt know I was watching him write. He is a really nice guy

2006-09-20 07:24:54 · 8 answers · asked by zoey 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-20 07:24:44 · 15 answers · asked by Onkar S 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend sent me an e-mail the other day and I'm not sure what this means.. maybe you can help.

"This is the best relationship that I have been in, in a very long time....like this is the only one"

I'm not sure what "like this is the only one" is supposed to mean. Doesn't make much since.

2006-09-20 07:24:20 · 11 answers · asked by kristy 4 in Singles & Dating

do you just want 2 hook up with her or be friends with her, or both?

I like to be in the company of guys, cause they arent catty like chicks, but most of the guys I meet just want sex ,not to be friends

2006-09-20 07:24:14 · 12 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Singles & Dating

I was dating a guy and i'm sure i loved him. but we got in an arguement and he yelled at me and said some things that were unbelievably mean and i broke up with him. now he's heartbroken and is begging to get back together or else stay friends. i don't really know what to do?

2006-09-20 07:23:37 · 26 answers · asked by bubblegumpink_88 2 in Singles & Dating

For those of you that answered the question stating to get him {2} gifts, what should I get? He is loving and not into flashy stuff, he is deep into sports but does not care to have a room full sports stuff. He is very classic, and very laid back about everything he does.

2006-09-20 07:23:36 · 5 answers · asked by J J 3 in Singles & Dating

I am staying with my family while i am actively looking for an apartment and helping my parents with the bills as well and cleaning. However, i am sharing a bathroom with my 18 year old brother who is a slob and its driving me crazy. The toilet seat is always up i am almost fell in several times. There is always hair in the sink and tub. There is always dirt caked in the tub after he uses it. He has a bad habit of hawking phelgm in the sink and leaving it rather than just spitting in the toilet and flushing it. There is always water on the sink after he uses it. When i tell him that its his turn to clean the bathroom he throws a ***** fit. I am always the one cleaning it because i hate a filthy bathroom. But right after i clean it a day later is a mess. I remember my boyfriend went to use our bathroom and saw how horrible it looked he declined to use it i was so embarrassed. Also my brother has a habit leaving the bathroom door wide open while he takes a sh!t. It has gotten so bad...

2006-09-20 07:23:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

BEEN GETTING CLOSE TO THIS GUY FOR SIX MONTHS, I LIKE HIM ALOT,AND NOW THAT MY FEELINGS ARE GROWING STRONGER I WANT MORE FROM HIM THAN JUST BEING A FRIEND,BUT HE IS NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP,HE SAYS HE REALLY LIKES ME AND FEELS AM SPECIAL,BUT THAT HE CAN'T GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME BECAUSE HE FEELS THAT HE CAN'T OFFER ME WHAT A PROPER BOYFRIEND SHOULD GIVE ME. THE ONLY THING HIS OFFERING IS FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS. WHAT SHOULD I DO AS I DON'T WANT HIM NOT TO SHOW ME AFFECTIONS BUT I ALSO DON'T WANT TO BE USED?????

2006-09-20 07:22:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well my ex and have been through alot and now were best friends. even though i know about him having sex with a few girls (2) and he tells me everthing like when he does it, and i was hanging out with him the other day and when i got home i felt sad because i missed him. i have a lot of love for him and i wish we were still together. yes, he moved on but it's clear i haven't and tried to get with someone else but it didn't work, and i shouldn't like him any more because he's a player and a hoe but i still do. i get so mad at myself because of my feelings. it was my fault we broke up but before that he was always a flirt and a cheat. i need to get over him i just don't know how. i can't stop being his friend because that would hurt me even more. Help!! i need alot of it.

2006-09-20 07:21:13 · 26 answers · asked by Lu-Lu - hopelessly romantic 2 in Singles & Dating

this is crystal, please send info on how to get ahold of you

2006-09-20 07:21:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-20 07:19:52 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do you still have the butterflies or a feeling of sadness when you hear your lover's fave song, see their fave thing, smell the perfume s/he used to wear, etc

how do you deal with it

i hate it 'cause it makes me long for something i can't have

thanks

2006-09-20 07:19:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok there is this really pretty girl at my school...she is older i think..all i know is her name and she going to be a programmer..we have a lab and sometimes when we are in lab she sits next to me even if there is like 50 other computers open..she did this more then once..(this is a trip) i went to vegas with some of my boys and i know she knew i was going b-cuz i was talking bout it in lab and i know she over heard me..then during that weekend in vegas i seen her in a club..i didnt talk to her at all...but when i went back to school i asked her if that was her and she said ..yes..thats it i never said nothing else to her...im shy but man i want to get to know her bad...i would never say this but i think she is out of my league..IS SHE FEELING ME SITTING NEXT TO ME IN LAB OR JUST A COINCIDENCE????what do i do?????? i also heard she got a man...what do i do???

2006-09-20 07:19:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking about shaving 'down there', but i have never done it before & i dont want to hurt myself! That area is very delicate you know..How do i go about doing this for the first time? Do i need to cut it first or...? Please helpful answers, thanks!

2006-09-20 07:18:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think my husband has an anger/temper problem, he tells me that he is normal and that EVERYONE gets mad and I make his outbursts to be more than they are...in the last two years he has: punched the steering wheel in his truck, thrown his wedding ring at me, slammed his fists down on tables, slammed doors, crushed a bag of potato chips dumped it all over my living room floor,threatened to get rid of my cat, thrown all of my stuff outside the apartmentment and locked me out, rammed a chair into the table, thrown tv remote, kicked shoes, curses saying "**** you", has told me to shut up, and has thrown his video game remote on the ground breaking it, and hit plate of cookies across the room.I tell him I'm concerned about his temper but he says he not as bad as most, and says because he does not do this EVERYDAY its not a big deal, then he tells me that everyone gets mad. I am concerend but he blows off my conerns, is he trying install fear in me by acting like this? How bad is this?

2006-09-20 07:18:34 · 27 answers · asked by ilih2006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A guy at school likes me alot and we hang out sometimes. We have ALOT in common so everyone thinks that we would make the best couple ever but whenever I think about goin out with him I get this sick feeling and don't know what to do. I mean its a bad sick feeling like I'm goin to throw up. Its not the butterflies. If he asks me out like I know hes goin to do I say yes or no? Is this feeling just me being scared to date or my head/heart telling me not to go out with him?

2006-09-20 07:17:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-20 07:16:49 · 56 answers · asked by *********** 4 in Singles & Dating

I am doing an essay on the advantages of being the youngest child, and one of my advantages is that the youngest child gets to stay up later...but I can't think of reasons why or examples...Could someone help me out please...THANKS!!


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2006-09-20 07:16:14 · 15 answers · asked by i wanna know 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok this is werid but I think its true is it possible for a mother and son to be to close with each other? ok my husband and I live with his parents at 1st she(his mom) would always come along with us okay we had fun but sometime I wanted us to be alone, ok now she seem to always wanting to be with him alone she don't like when I come alone with them, she don't want us to talk to each other if she see us talkin to each other she will get very very mad and she whiriper something in is ear and we don't talk, everytime we are alone she has to call him for somethin, at 1st I was like okay she don't want to let her baby go but now its like she get jeously if she see him talking to me or getting to close, she is always in his face not her husband's and heres the big thing she planned a few days away to Atlanta just her and him(my husband) to go "shopping" for produce cos that what they do instead of telling her husband to come cos he have to go wit her to see what he want give me some sign's

2006-09-20 07:15:12 · 23 answers · asked by Latashia S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

who created the webpage laleeda1963@yahoo.com ?she says she didnt do it and blames me for it

2006-09-20 07:15:06 · 4 answers · asked by ransom4660 1 in Marriage & Divorce