do you just want 2 hook up with her or be friends with her, or both?
I like to be in the company of guys, cause they arent catty like chicks, but most of the guys I meet just want sex ,not to be friends
2006-09-20 07:24:14 · 12 answers · asked by goldieluxxx 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a friend first defintly
2006-09-20 07:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by navy guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 25.
This is complicated. I only have one guy friend, the rest are all girls. Any friendship always begins with some sort of attraction, mostly physical, sometimes because they have something in common.
So mostly all the girls I have ever been friends with was because I thought they were cute/hot/sexy/wanted to bang her.
However, if the girl doesnt see me that way, yet if she is somehow interesting/intriguing/funny then I stick around for a while and if she turns out to be a good friend I do my very best to keep that friendship, after all, good friends are hard to find.
If you are a hot body with nothing else and you have no interest in me, why would I stay? I move on to the next one. Not everyone wants a friend yet not everyone just wants to get laid.
I fooled around once or twice with close female friends, I even dated one, (didnt work out) yet I also have one or two friends who I can lay in bed right next to and fall sleep and nothing else will happen. I have a friend that when she wants to get pissed drunk, she calls me in, because sometimes she just wants a guy to take her home and LEAVE. I dont mind, because its a show off for me to leave the club with her and her friends. Makes me look good.
True friendship isa two way road. Its all about giving and getting. How much you give and how much you get its up to you.
2006-09-20 14:42:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I met you by myself it's a more intimate way of meeting a girl than if I met you through other friends. Our converstations might be a little more personal and open because it's just us. If you're around friends you shouldn't be worried you're amongst friends and you look out for each other. If one of your guy friends is interested and you're not you should tell him you think he's a good guy and that's why you're friends with him but it's not the relationship you want with him but you think he deserves a good girl.
2006-09-20 17:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by Meowmixtape 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both
2006-09-20 14:34:25 · answer #4 · answered by Garrett F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coulb be both, but mostly u start as a friend, then take it to the next level
2006-09-20 20:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by djmarce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on her personality. for me, if her personality is really sweet and she seems caring i would like to get to know her as a friend or lover. the idea of hookin up comes up too but if her personality is bitchy or really vain i only think about hookin up
2006-09-20 16:32:08 · answer #6 · answered by Trojan8408 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be friends before you can have good sex and actually love someone.
2006-09-20 14:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by captianpr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you want to hook up, no guys just want to be friends. we dont think like that.
2006-09-20 14:25:53 · answer #8 · answered by Henry_Tee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we guys dont think that way dear... sorry.
There are a few exception, if you find one keep him.
2006-09-20 14:32:14 · answer #9 · answered by resiste_lfc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends... love sex but friendship is more rewarding
2006-09-21 04:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by staticgear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋