2006-09-20 07:19:52 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can stop pretending to be him in your other questions!
I know you might be frustrated, but it will all happen at the right time if it is meant to be!
2006-09-20 07:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. A marriage takes two people. If one isn't ready, then any manipulations on your part to induce his proposal will backfire terribly. He will realize that you are trying (or have manipulated) to get him to do something that he doesn't want to do just yet and resent you. This makes people angry. And honestly, if you loved him, you wouldn't want to force him to do anything against his will.
Bottom line: he will ask you when he's ready. If you're so anxious, ask him. If he says no, you may need to re-evaluate the situation and determine whether this person deserves your precious time in the first place.
2006-09-20 07:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by SedaCanela 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you can he probably has to come around on his own. I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and he would die for me. Well maybe you can be looking in a magazine right next to him and find engagement rings and say oooh look honey these rings are pretty. Start hinting to him. Maybe hell get the idea. I wish my boyfriend would hurry up and propose too. Well good luck to you.
2006-09-20 07:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are doing good in your relationship and the two of you really love each other...then it shouldn't be too much of a problem.
Do you think you are ready for marriage?
Have either of you talked about getting married?
Maybe you should just bring up the subject and see what happens...you could also propose to him...who says that guy has to be the one who asks?
2006-09-20 07:25:44 · answer #4 · answered by Robby N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't! he needs to do it on his own! why are you worried about him proposing? you sound like you are silly and needy and impatient. it should happen naturally. Never even think of pressuring a guy about engagement and marriage. If he is not ready, then he probebly won't be ready. being love and wanting to be engaged is something you should let him do on his own. so stop being impatient and enjoy what you have with him. let him prove to you that you are worth it. So stop doing that..no man wants to do something like that. You will lose him if you let him know that you are dying to get engaged. Besides it's the committement that proves he loves you not a damn ring!
2006-09-20 07:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not you proposeing to him if you think the time is right?
2006-09-20 07:25:47 · answer #6 · answered by tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get him to propose just wait because if you push him he won't want to do it or you can propose to him which would be great and show female pride GO WOMEN!!!
2006-09-20 07:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by ajdevs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make" him. Best you can do is let him know that marriage is your ultimate goal, and you would like to move towards is fairly soon. If he doesn't propose, he is not interested in marrying you, period. Either accept things as they are, or look elsewhere.
2006-09-20 07:27:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the 21 century - why don't you propose to him?
2006-09-20 07:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why wait? You do the proposing. Break the norm. He'll either rush to accept (which means he's already been thinking about it) or hesitate. If he hesitates, then you're not as close as you think you are.
2006-09-20 07:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by The Baron 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you even discussed marriage? You should ask him what he thinks of the idea.. then coincidentally stop at the jewelry store the next time you are at a shopping center. That way he gets the hint that you would say yes... and let him go from there... you can't MAKE him do it.... lead the horse to water.. see if it drinks
2006-09-20 07:23:28 · answer #11 · answered by WifeandMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋