ok there is this really pretty girl at my school...she is older i think..all i know is her name and she going to be a programmer..we have a lab and sometimes when we are in lab she sits next to me even if there is like 50 other computers open..she did this more then once..(this is a trip) i went to vegas with some of my boys and i know she knew i was going b-cuz i was talking bout it in lab and i know she over heard me..then during that weekend in vegas i seen her in a club..i didnt talk to her at all...but when i went back to school i asked her if that was her and she said ..yes..thats it i never said nothing else to her...im shy but man i want to get to know her bad...i would never say this but i think she is out of my league..IS SHE FEELING ME SITTING NEXT TO ME IN LAB OR JUST A COINCIDENCE????what do i do?????? i also heard she got a man...what do i do???
2006-09-20 07:19:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My husband and I were the complete opposite. He was much like you. I took me pursuing him 3 months before he would even speak to me. Like him very much but thought he hated me because he would never speak to me. Finally after chasing him around showing up in place I knew he would be we started talking. I'm not really sure what he said or did to make it official but we have been married 13 years and have two beautiful children. The point of my story talk to her!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-20 07:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by khaines_98 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is sitting next to you and there are 50 other free areas to sit at, she defiinitely wants to sit next to you. All you have to do is BE YOURSELF...remember, she might be as shy as you, you just dont know it. Start by talking about the trip, or by the class you both take. If she is as intersted in you as I think she is, then she will love that you finally started to talk to her. And if she isn't interested, it is her loss. You sound rally nice and not like a damn "playa", like some guys "think" they are, lol...Good Luck.....oh yeah, and dont worry that you haerd she has a man....if it is true, she might not even be that interested in him, or she wouldn't be sitting next to you. Trust me, she likes you and is waiting for YOU to make the first move. Just do it.
2006-09-20 14:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by romanov1918 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is over 50 computers and she sits next to you something is up...you better stop duckin off and jump on it before it gets away....or you will never know. Start up a conversation the next time she sits next to you like "do you go to (whatever that clubs name was) alot...or were you just there to see me..." say it just like that....and see what happens....I am sure you will like the outcome...
2006-09-20 14:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by kikosgirl83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to her! Be nice and try to be friends first! If she's got a man, the only way you are going to find that out is to talk to her! Take a chance!!
2006-09-20 14:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by redirishactress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i suggest is that you become friends with her first and find out about her. If you feel like it's going somewhere, then pursue it. But if she's just interested in being friends, then leave it at that. You really have nothing to lose if you're not too aggressive.
2006-09-20 14:27:30 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it! the worst thing that you can do is let your feelings bottle up inside of you and not tell her how u feel! just tell her that you like her in a note! its not the easiest thing but its nmot easy for a girl to tell a guy either! you never no the worst that can happen is that she can reject you! youll get over it! GOOD LUCK!
2006-09-20 14:22:28 · answer #6 · answered by hunny_boo_boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep doing as you are. Being nice, but keeping your distance. Maybe theres an "Ora" about you that compells her to be drawn to you. Let her make the moves on this one. she will come around if theres something to it. She will open up to you. I would let that happen here. You keep being who you are and let things go naturally.
2006-09-20 14:22:30 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date and if things go good then keep talking to her.
2006-09-20 14:25:34 · answer #8 · answered by Jessie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
strike up a conversation with her. you can probably find out what you want to know that way. If you can't talk to her, you could always wait and let her make the first move.
2006-09-20 14:23:44 · answer #9 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Lab is in the morning say.....hay insert name here....you want to go to lunch? if lab is in the afternoon say....hay insert name here....would you like to meet for lunch tomorrow?
its informal open to the public and you see weather or not she chews with her mouth closed....Good Luck and just be yourself
2006-09-20 14:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by BillyJoeBob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋