A guy at school likes me alot and we hang out sometimes. We have ALOT in common so everyone thinks that we would make the best couple ever but whenever I think about goin out with him I get this sick feeling and don't know what to do. I mean its a bad sick feeling like I'm goin to throw up. Its not the butterflies. If he asks me out like I know hes goin to do I say yes or no? Is this feeling just me being scared to date or my head/heart telling me not to go out with him?
2006-09-20 07:17:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always say trust your instincts, and if you are getting sick to your stomach when you think about being with him, then I don't think you should be with him. If it was me, I would have to tell him, if he asked me out, that I really like being friends with him, but do not having any other feelings for him other than that. Good luck!!
2006-09-20 07:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by ssmomma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, just because everyone thinks that you would make a cute couple, does not mean that you should make that cute couple. I honestly think that everyone thinks that Orlando Bloom and I would make a fantastic couple, but it's never going to happen.
Sometimes, we women get a little overstressed, our stomachs tell us to take ourselves out of the situation, hence the sick feeling you are having. Right now, it is something that your body is not quite ready to handle. You may like this guy, but you may not know it yet. It happens.
My suggestion is definately do what you feel is right. It is your decision, not everyone else's. Good luck!
2006-09-20 07:27:00 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard answer, but ez because i went throw the same problem. One of my best friends asked me out about a month ago. And I think that dating your best friends is not the right thing to do. 1) Because they start to act different. 2) U don't wont things to go any different right? U don't have to take my advice but I would not go out with him. Hey i might be wrong and what i say might not be the right advice for u. But all i am tryin to say is Me and my friend went out for about 2 weeks because we hang out to much. 1) we were friends 2) we were together! And it may just be your heart telling you to say yes! FOLLOW UR HEART
So i hope u get enough advice if not e-mail me (skoobie_1992@yahoo.com) or u care to here more about my story.
2006-09-20 07:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by Desters 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not go slow? Perhaps you are just not in the mood to date anybody seriously at this moment; school and all the other stuff can be pretty time-consuming.
Stick with hanging out and being with the group for now. You can 'couple up' at some later time, when you're more in the mood for it.
2006-09-20 07:21:07 · answer #4 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..i have the same problem, but slightly different. i get that sick feeling whenever i see my boyfriend, or whenever he comes online, i have to go run to the toilet and i really do puke, i can't even eat. but its the way he makes me feel, he has that effect on me and i love him so much. we always joke about it and i tell him how sick he makes me feel,lol..its a feeling of love, trust, care, and shyness all at the same time. i'm a really really shy person..i think you should give him a chance and see how it goes, so say yes and you might be proved wrong. good luck and have a great time ;-)
2006-09-20 07:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by before&after 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't have the feelings for him.. Don't go out with him. You say you hang out with him often, so your heart is telling you that you just don't have romantic feelings.
No big deal.. just tell him you really like him, but not in a romantic way. You can continue to hang out with him, and your feeling may change one day.
2006-09-20 07:23:00 · answer #6 · answered by LittleBitOfSugar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow. If you don't go out on a date with the guy, so what? If he really is "Mr. Right, he won't run just like that. He'll stick around. So go with your gut, don't go this time. If he runs to some one else, it wasn't ment to be.
2006-09-20 07:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by PeeWee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your not interested in dating him. So just say no.
Just because he's a nice guy and everyone thinks you would be good together does not mean that you would be or that you have to date him.
2006-09-20 07:21:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your having those feelings...........you only see him as a friend and nothing else.........you don't get those feelings because you scared..well only sometimes........but if your getting sick when you think about dating him/or going out with him.......you body is definitly telling you something.....listen to it.......... :) good luck!
2006-09-20 07:22:32 · answer #9 · answered by sexy_ndn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, listen to your heart not what others say. don't go. especially, just a thought makes you sick.
2006-09-20 07:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋