BEEN GETTING CLOSE TO THIS GUY FOR SIX MONTHS, I LIKE HIM ALOT,AND NOW THAT MY FEELINGS ARE GROWING STRONGER I WANT MORE FROM HIM THAN JUST BEING A FRIEND,BUT HE IS NOT READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP,HE SAYS HE REALLY LIKES ME AND FEELS AM SPECIAL,BUT THAT HE CAN'T GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH ME BECAUSE HE FEELS THAT HE CAN'T OFFER ME WHAT A PROPER BOYFRIEND SHOULD GIVE ME. THE ONLY THING HIS OFFERING IS FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS. WHAT SHOULD I DO AS I DON'T WANT HIM NOT TO SHOW ME AFFECTIONS BUT I ALSO DON'T WANT TO BE USED?????
2006-09-20 07:22:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeh right "friends with benifits"!!!!! In other words, he feels he can do better then you, but in the mean time, why not ****. He's a looser, drop him fast, tell him when he's ready for a RELATIONSHIP, call you.
2006-09-20 07:25:57 · answer #1 · answered by Judith O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, its all great if you can remain friends and not cross those boundaries. Only because some people do expect more and some people get attached very quickly. If that was the case could cause crossing a bridge to burn behind you. Being friends after sex could turn into "never be able to be the same friends" but on the other hand I know people that do it and they are great friends and nothing has changed between them at least I hope it hasn't.....
2006-09-22 23:47:57 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u have the perfect thing and are about to screw it up. If he is being honest and direct that he cant provide for you but u still get the great things of a friendship without relationship troubles....dont screw it up. Maybe he will in the future be able to give u wha tu need....PATIENCE LITTLE CRICKET!!!
2006-09-20 14:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get involved until he decides he is ready for a relationship. If you do not wait it might screw up your friendship.
2006-09-20 14:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE WILL USE YOU FOR SEX ONLY, YOU DON'T NEED HIM.
2006-09-20 14:30:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋