do you still have the butterflies or a feeling of sadness when you hear your lover's fave song, see their fave thing, smell the perfume s/he used to wear, etc
how do you deal with it
i hate it 'cause it makes me long for something i can't have
thanks
2006-09-20 07:19:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes but in my case the story finished two years ago; so how does time heal anything
2006-09-20 07:30:10 · update #1
Not anymore. I used to diefy him until I ran into him one day and saw exactly wierd he turned out when he grew older.
2006-09-20 07:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel. i deal with this everyday. not only do you have these things to deal with, i have to see her every other day to pick up my daughter. i can ride down the road and hear a song that has absolutely nothing to do with us but it will be about a relationship and then the pain hits again. only time will heal this and help you deal with your feelings. i know where you are coming from because i am there now. all i can tell you is hang out with friends and family and lean on them when you need someone to talk to and eventually time will heal your wounds.
2006-09-20 07:27:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow - i hope i'm over him 2 years from now - it's only been a few months and when i hear a song that reminds me of us, i have to change the station - sometimes it's too painful to listen - i think you need to get out more - you just wasted about 2 years of your life on something you can't have.
2006-09-20 07:38:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person falls in love more than once in there life time. The times in between can be hard and forgetting is inevitable, but the person you stay with in the end is the one you're meant to be with.
2006-09-20 07:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by Robby N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I still have that feeling for my ex. It's not about still wanting him, for me its about remembering how i felt then with him and what we had...obviously we broke up for reason...I remember it everyday and it makes me greatful I am where I am now...Somepeople, just always feel that way about someone else. It's not something to stress about. Remember the good times and then remember why it didn't work.
2006-09-20 08:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by ♥jen♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just remember the last time I saw her when she had gained about 100 pounds and turn into a porker
2006-09-20 07:23:36 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah but its starting to fade because each time that happens to me I immediately force myself to start thinking about the bad times. I remember all those nights that he hurt me so bad and that helps me to not hang on to something that I cant have.
2006-09-20 07:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..i think its normal to feel that way you start thinking about the what ifs. but things happen for a reason and if your not together than maybe you were meant to be with someone else.
2006-09-20 07:25:06 · answer #8 · answered by PRETTYGIRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you will but try to think of the things too that were not that good too..all those things you wrote are triggers that will be memories to
all of us...it is not bad to remember those things ,dont dwell on the what if's just the thing that it is now
2006-09-20 07:23:46 · answer #9 · answered by candiesman05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are right on target with that. You long for those lost feelings that you can't get back to.
2006-09-20 07:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋