My best friend's boyfriend is a real piece of work. He's selfish, and very controlling of her. For example. she and I were spending the day together, and he decides that he wants her to come visit him at work. She explains to him that I am with her, and gets upset. As though she's not supposed to have a social life! Then we go to dinner with him, because he got a break, and he gets mad at her for bringing me.
He does this all the time. He wants all of her spare time, and doesn't allow her to hang out with any of her friends without him calling every 5 minutes asking her what she's doing.
I don't know what to do. She's so in love with him, that she can't see what he does to her friendships.
I've tried to just be nice and get along with him, but I refuse to not stand up for myself, and he insults me a lot, so I say stuff back. Not in a bad way, in a "defending myself" sort of way.
What should I do about it?
2006-09-19
08:43:58
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Heather H
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