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He seems to be in his 40's , Im in my late 20's, he is always coming to my cubical & talking to me..We have much in common, we work in two very different deptartments...Do you think I should be brave & ask him out? How to go about asking? What if he's not interested??!! HELP!! THX!!

2006-09-19 08:45:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

12 answers

ask him to share a lunch with you ... see where it goes from there

2006-09-19 08:48:39 · answer #1 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0 3

go for it! Just ask him about his plans for the weekend, if he's seeing someone you'll know soon enough and won't have to get rejected. If he's not seeing anyone then you find out what he does for fun. All you do now is take interest in his likes and make a date to meet up or something. Keep it open ended so you can bale if he's boring or be spontaneous if he's interesting. Remember you still have to work with this guy so keep it at a friendship level till you know where you stand.

Have Fun!

2006-09-19 15:57:56 · answer #2 · answered by gimmefuel2 2 · 0 0

Dont ask him out! If hes interested in you which it seems like he is, hes just waiting for the right time to ask you out. So let him know that you do like him by saying things like saying how good he looks today, and ask him what hes doing this weekend and if he says nothing, he will prob ask you and always say nothing, so than he knows your free to ask out. Keep flirting with him and look your best, and in time he will ask you. Because the last thing you want is to ask him out and he will say no or be not intersted you would look like a fool and feel like one too. So wait be patient and he will come around.Mention that you had plans this weekend and your friend just blew it on you, and now you have nothing to do and you were looking forward on doing somthing this weekend, than ask him if you want..and if he says hes busy than you know hes not into you right now, or trying hard to get. Than let him make the first move, if he says hes not doing anything either, than ask him if he would like to catch a moive or lunch one day on the weekend. And go from there, dont make it too obvouis that you like him just wanted to do somthing with him as a friend and see where it goes...keep flirting though

2006-09-19 15:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

The only way to found out if he's interested is to just ask him. You should ask him to go have a drink with you after work.

2006-09-19 15:54:07 · answer #4 · answered by D-Nice 2 · 0 0

keep it simple and take it slow ask him to go out for a drink or coffee and see how things progress. a simple gesture from you will do one of two things it will show you if he is interested or not and to be turned down for coffee isnt like being turned down on a date and the other thing it will do is show him you like him and if he feels the same will ask you out on a real date. be safe and be careful.

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2006-09-19 15:56:24 · answer #5 · answered by Savage 7 · 0 0

why dont you ask him for coffee or appetizers? how about "hey "joe", you doing anything after work? i was told about this great coffee shop (or restaurant). you wanna check it out?, if he says no, say "ok, maybe next time when you're not too busy" it'll leave it open for a possible future offer. ask it w/a little upbeat attitude. hope it works.

2006-09-19 15:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by becca 1 · 0 0

Ask him out, enjoy life, I asked my husband out, he has been devoted to me for 9 years now.

If you are rejected remeber men have to go through it all of the time.

2006-09-19 15:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yeah if he's simgle. Start with a coffee or dinner and/or drinks after work.
Good Luck!

2006-09-19 15:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by No More 7 · 0 0

yeah..go for it,he may be interested in a friendship..give it a try ...it's nice to have friends.....who become lovers...jus say"i wanna ask you something,(he will look anxious to know what you want to ask him)then say..you wanna go out??"

2006-09-19 15:50:15 · answer #9 · answered by Gemini 3 · 0 0

yes why not, ask him if he would like to go to dinner or go dancing.im sure that will be great.maybe hes to shy to ask you but you can ask him.good luck.

2006-09-19 15:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by Male Sicilian Trauma Nurse 6 · 0 0

don't work for a longer relationship. If you are horny break-up after a night stand.

2006-09-19 15:57:02 · answer #11 · answered by Sumitha 3 · 0 1

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