Ok after dating a guy, and you're feeling the dude. You finally have sex. But find out this great, almost perfect guy has the smallest penis you ever saw, am I wrong for leaving him what would you do???
2006-09-19 08:46:31 · 40 answers · asked by Curious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you're not wrong, why can't a girl be picky? I am!! I've always expected to find the PERFECT guy, package and all!! So until it happens, just have fun with different people. Because heaven forbid you be with small package guy and the perfect guy hits on you and you have to turn him down because you have a boyfriend... you will have missed out on Mr. Perfect. I eventually found the perfect guy!! He was definitely worth the wait.
2006-09-19 08:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by slickpam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart that is NOT shallow.... Relationships are made up of many things and sexual gratification is one of them. Some men prefer women with big breast, which are clearly visible to the eye, some people have preferences to height or weight. These are all physical attractions that we can immediately see upon meeting a person. Other things we find out about later.......It doesn't mean you are shallow if you prefer someone who is the same height as you or the same race? You are not saying he is disgusting or gross you are simply saying he doesn't fit your box! If he is this perfect, terrific guy and you adore him than there are other ways you an spice up what is lacking in that department. However, if you are just dating and there is no burning love for this guy then move on.
Just be gentle when you let him down don't be mean!
2006-09-19 09:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is difficult. I mean if he is a great guy, maybe he would be willing to do other things for your sexual satisfaction. I would think the intimacy between two people who really love each other could be just as good, even if he doesn't measure up. However, if size somehow reall has to matter for you, then I say let him down gently. There is no use in ruining a good mans outlook on women and dating just because you're a size queen. I personally hope you can get past this hang up, you could miss out on a great guy. Would you rather get beat up, or have a big penis?
2006-09-19 08:53:36 · answer #3 · answered by David J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here we go with the size issue! So God deceided to give this guy everything but a large penis! You poor girl! It doesn't take a large penis to please a woman, its in how you use what you have. So you can do some kegal exercises and tighten up, try some different positions, moves and rhythms, work together to please each other, and have a guy who is perfect ALL THE WAY around, or you can go find a guy that is well endowed, cheats on you and slaps the snot out of you everytime you don't bow to his every demand! YES YOU ARE SHALLOW FOR DOING THIS!
2006-09-19 08:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by kandekizzez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is pretty shallow to dump a guy over their penis but hey whatever. Just because he has a small penis doesn't mean he doesn't know how to use it or other things.. My man doesn't have that big of a penis either but he sure knows how to use it
2006-09-19 08:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by surfadudett00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you are shallow for dumping a guy because he has a small penis. Of course we probably have all done it. I know i am guilty of this charge. But you shouldn't. If you have true feelings about him then you will be with him no matter what even if his penis is really really small. TRUST ME I KNOW.
Chris
2006-09-19 10:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by aberboychris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure because I am a guy. It occures to me though, you can't work with the situation to make it great for the both of you? What happens if you fall in love with a guy with a small ***? You are going to pass by the love of a life time because of it?
I think if you really loved him you would learn how to work with what you have together. If he's just a lay and a notch in your belt? Well then you may want to drop him.
2006-09-19 08:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If his package is the only thing you want him from him then move on. But if you want to find something deeper than pleasuring your flesh I say see what else he has to offer unless that's whats rules your world. Besides what if he left you because of something so shallow like that how would you feel?
2006-09-19 08:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by blazinblackmale 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you're as wrong as any guy that would dump you just because he didn't like the size of your breasts.
His penis may be able to get as large as the next guy's if you get him excited enough.
Unless your clit is extremely displaced all you really need from a man is about 2" the rest is just taking up real estate inside of you.
2006-09-19 08:53:10 · answer #9 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No I don't think your wrong. Intimacy is very important and can make or break the relationship. If your not happy now, you definitely wont be happy later. Sounds like he makes a good friend and a lousy lover and unfortunately you will need the lover part to make it long term, good luck with what you decide to do!! : )
2006-09-19 08:50:42 · answer #10 · answered by Michelle Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋