today my dad was driving me to school and he asked me "if me and your mom were to get a divorce,who would you want to live with" my moms been talking about it alot recently and this is the first time my dad ever said anythng abt it.....Is it reasonable to belive that they are getting a divorce soon?
2006-09-19 08:53:23 · 9 answers · asked by confused_mexican 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i tried talking to my mom about it and she said dont worry about it that she'll take care of me n my sis no matter what. My dad is totaly inaprachable and i talked to my grandma and she said that its likely...
2006-09-19 09:00:59 · update #1
Sounds to me like they have been having a lot of problems lately and are starting to take the next step which is divorce. They dont want you to get hurt and they want you to make you own mind up on who you would want to stay with without pressureing you. I wouldnt take it 100 pecent sure that they will go through with it but it sounds pretty close to 100 percent. So if I were you I would be ready, and not be surprised if they tell you that they are. Just remember that they both love you so much, and they want what is best for you, and they dont want to fight anymore because its hard on the kids when the parents fight alot and they need to move on with their own life, so be there for both your parents the same equal! And know its nothing to do with you, and its not your fault. Dont scream and make it worse for them, because its already hard on them to begin with. Its for the best if two people fall out of love to just move on in different directions. Stand by both parents, and its easier than you think. Life goes on. Seems like there are more seperated parents now a days than ones who stay together. So your not the only one going through it. And if you need someone to talk to go to a concoler or go to someone you know who went through the same. Dont hate the other parent thinking it was their fault. Love both of them and i know they both love you
2006-09-19 10:55:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents about this. They are the only ones who can answer this for you. Have a talk with your mom about it, find a good time, when it's just the two of you. Best of luck.
2006-09-19 08:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry honey, but that sounds just like what's happening in our home too - i would say you should expect it, request a "family meeting" and bring it out into the open (but only do this if you are prepared to hear the worst)
2006-09-19 09:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by redneckgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. Sounds like they made the decision already.
Maybe it will be for the best. Just love them and remember parents are far from perfect!
2006-09-19 09:05:32 · answer #4 · answered by okiedokey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its very likely. realize this has nothing to to with you and dont take sides ... it is nice that he asked you, it shows they are trying to make the transition easy for you and they are trying not to use you children as pawns to hurt each other. make sure when you give your answer, you have a justification that is practical for your choice and that you are not choosing one over the other as a favorite. give them your answer when you sit down with them both at the same time so there will be no misunderstandings.
2006-09-19 08:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they're considering it. I'm sorry. Hang in there.
2006-09-19 09:05:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would say it's a pretty sure thing.
2006-09-19 09:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im going to have to say yes.
2006-09-19 08:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-18 13:15:02 · answer #9 · answered by omparsad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋