Ignoring women?

Question

I was reading something where a girl said if a guy ignored her she would definitely be attracted to him and go talk to him. I could see the logic but I didn't think this could ever work just because I don't think most girls would make the first move. So I tried it a few nights ago when I met up with some friends who were hanging out with some hot girls. I just ignored the girls all night. didn't introduce myself or acknowledge them. I'd spot them looking at me, and I just kept ignoring them but they didn't make a move. So girls, if a guy just ignored you, would you be attracted and make a move?

Answer 1

Dude it doesn't work that way, you have to have some kind of contact. Check it out, I started a new semester 2 weeks ago and there's this hot girl in my class. She sat down next to me, and exchanged hellos and I told her I think this class is going to be boring and that was it, I didn't say another word to her for the rest of that night. She talked some more but I just flat out didn't listen cause again, I thought she was out of my league and didn't want to come off needy or desperate. During the course of the night, these 2 different guys at different times asked for her number but she did the old" Well if you give me your number I'll be sure to call you" move instead. Mind you I didn't try talking to her or anything, I just focused on classwork. At the end of the night she said goodnight to me and I called her by another name cause I honestly forgot her's. Now she's smoking hot and I still forgot her name because I felt she was outta my league and the way I saw her play those 2 other guys, I wasn't going to put myself in a position to get played either. Now the next day in the school library I was working on a computer and she just happened to have sat next to me and started talking to me. Now there were countless other empty computers, some closer to the exit doors, but she choose the one I was next too and this time I opened up to her and remembered her name because she wrote it on my notebook along with her number. Today I've already been on 2 dates with her with a third on the way. I unintentionally ignored her for personal beliefs and this girl couldn't get enough of me. Will this work all the time, hell no! Will it work most of the time, hell no! Will it work half the time, yes depending on who the girl is.

Answer 2

First you don't go and hang out with your friends a try it. That just makes you look like a fool. The question why did he come over here if he wasn't going to say anything. You have to be on your own for this and it's not automatic. Any way this is not something you try This is a feeling guy do this not because there trying to pick up girls they do it because they like to be alone. But they will talk if someone comes over

Answer 3

Well, I think that is a little extreme.

You can say hello, but act very uninterested. The worst thing is when a guy seems really desperate and needy for your attention. Girls like a guy to make the first move, but not to be overbearing.

Answer 4

Not just women, but everybody hates to play these kind of games. If you like someone, show some interest and approach them. Ignoring someone is not setting yourself up as a challenge in their eyes, it is setting you up as someone who is not interested. Most people think life is too short to waste on somebody who is ignoring them. So get out there and make your intentions known. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Answer 5

Girls do NOT want to be ignored. Being mysterious can have some allure though ( do not confuse that with being sneaky and stuck up). Mostly just talk to us and treat us like we are more then an object to behold and you are half way there to knowing what we want. Learning the other half of what we want will require 20 years of your life and maybe more.

Answer 6

Nope, I would think that he had absolutley no interest in me. You need to go for the angle of funny and friendly but not intersted in a relationship, that way, women aren't intimidated by some guy that is showing signs of desparation. After you talk to the girl for awhile and she is flirting with you, stop acting uninterested and act (again - not desparate) interested.

Answer 7

nope, if you ignore a girl, they will ignore you back. You mention that they were looking at you, most likely they are talking about you, not about how cute you are or anything, but how rude you were to them... what i think you should do is introduce yourself and talk a little bit and ignore...not sure if it will work, but at least they can say your nice enough to say hi, who knows you might have a chance....:)

Answer 8

Most guys I've liked were the "impossible" ones. I think I had an attraction to you and you showed no interest, I would want you more because it would be like a challenge. The thought of finally getting you would like a compliment to my ego.

Answer 9

Stop the juvenile games....okay??? You need to grow up and act mature. In the grown up world, it is acceptable in a social situation to approach someone and talk. I have done it hundreds of times in the adult world. There is nothing wrong with being friendly and nice and just see what kind of vibes you get. You will be so thrilled when you get out of this stage of your life.......game playing will never get you any place!

Answer 10

Nope I hate games if she or you like someone go tell her/him the worst that can happen is regection but like they say when a door closes another will open. Im the kind of girl that sees what she wants and goes for it and those that come to me is a huge turn on for me. Lets grow some balls guys!!!