We are very close friends and we were talking over msn messanger because its cheaper!and this is what he said:
got to go now
love you
if i could
i would.....
but i cant
because
doesnt matter
bye
And thats how he said it - im confused, he normally just says "im off, laters" lol.
I posted this question before but so many people asked me more questions so here are the answers:
He's not gay
He's really shy when it coms to girls he fancies
He's a virgin and doesnt want to lose his virginity before marriage because its against his (and my) religion - so its not for sex
He talks about other "fit" girls too at times
He's not old nor married
He is single but i have a b/f
He usually just makes it so in-my- face that he would never be with me!
He doesnt seem like the type to say something like that to any1 at all, and note how he just rambled on! I thought this was a platonic friendship because he's so open with me, even about embarassing stuff, - So whats going on?
2006-09-19 08:49:39 · 19 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I asked him the following day what he meant, and he replied "i forgot"
2006-09-19 08:49:56 · update #1
Maybe he meant, he couldnt because im too "ugly" or something like that???
2006-09-19 09:09:28 · update #2
Sounds like he likes you but doesnt think you would feel the same
2006-09-19 08:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of fishing? Reeling in a line, waiting for a catch.
Sounds like he fancies you but has just thrown out a indirect attempt to find out what YOU think. Even though he knows you have a bf, you two chat a lot and are close. It may have become emotional for him, and he's trying to find out if its the same for you too. If you say something or act in a way that bares your feelings he may proceed. If your feelings dont match or you dont reciprocate, he can always shrug it off as a 'misunderstanding' to ward off the rejection and save the friendship that he obviously enjoys.
So are you the catch of the day???
2006-09-19 08:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by RealChic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my - just saw all your questions - all about this same guy?
I think you have feelins for him else you would have just laughed off this strange msn... Not read all the answers may be s/o said this before! think about it - what do you want from this? If he does have feelings for you he has to decide what he wants too.. There's no point trying to second guess others feelings, deal with what is actually hapening and it seems if it is only on msn not a lot - take each day as it comes!
2006-09-19 09:33:40 · answer #3 · answered by DNA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sound 2me as though he likes u but is scared of saying incase u dont feel the same.....he wants 2 b more than friends but doenst want 2 b knocked back + feel embarassed thats y he said what he said....next time u asked he said he forgot, thats a sign of being embarrasses + not wanting 2 repeat it or explain it....i think u need to explain to him how u feel about him now BIGTIME!!
good luck chick.
x.niks.x
2006-09-20 01:31:48 · answer #4 · answered by lil niks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right, he fancies u, u mentioned that he shy around girls that he fancies, so if he could (love u) but he cant, (u have a b/f) doesnt matter - (he doesn't want to bring the subject up, because he doesnt want to loose u as a friend?)
advice - dont mention again untill he ready and dont worry bout what he said, if he fancied u that much, it will become really obvious...
2006-09-19 09:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by storm.minx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw a show on the telly; and it was about this guy who was handling women on this subject:
"He just NOT THAT INTO YOU" when women get hooked on someone who is just not meeting them half way.
I think that this is the situation that's going on for YOU; hey the guy is just not going to meet you half way. Sorry but that is what it looks like from here.
Move on; there WILL be someone more responsible, who WILL meet you more than half way........unhook yourself, and move on.
Good luck
2006-09-19 12:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by Bluebells21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously likes you but wont admit it to you because he dosnt want to ruin the friendship by admitting that to you. I have done the same before said no chance but really meant yeah id like to go out with you if you didn't have a b/f
2006-09-19 08:54:50 · answer #7 · answered by geoffrey2312 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you but is saying that because you have a boyfriend and such a close "platonic" relationship he doesn't feel he should be feeling the way he does.
2006-09-19 23:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by sexy red head 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he probably likes you more than a Friend but is scared of telling you in case you don't feel the same way .and is scared that it could make thing awkward ......if you like him then tell him if you don't then just don't say anything and keep being friends hope this helps good luck ..!!!!
2006-09-19 08:59:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my opinion is the guy fancies you but due to been a little shy and you having a b/f is finding it hard to tell you... msn is great for getting your feelings out with having to deal with the humiliation or rejection... i know trust me... cute guy... me un-confident girl... chat allot ... told him i fancied the pants off him when i felt very brave... got together... fantastic !!!
2006-09-19 09:57:22 · answer #10 · answered by uggs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋