I am in the process of ending a long relationship with my boyfriend but during this period, I have fallen in love with someone else. This all happenned by some sort of weird timing. I still love my boyfriend but we are not working out together. Would it be ok to move on with this new interest but still have love for my soon-to-be-ex?
2006-09-19 08:46:57 · 10 answers · asked by fonygirl69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't do that if I were you. Probably in your new interest you still see your ex boyfriend and deep in your heart you're still with your ex. And I also think that may be you don't love any of them because it's just impossible to love two people at a time, it looks like you realy like them but I doubt that it is love, otherwise you would't ask this question, you would know the answer yourself straight away. That's my point of view, I hope that's gonna help you
2006-09-19 09:03:06 · answer #1 · answered by inesa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes...Men are like Children.. You can have 3 or 4 and love them all greatly, equally and differently all at the same time.
If you are asking to dump the current one you already know the answer.. You are just looking for permission which you can only give yourself..Not from all these yahoo's on here.
2006-09-19 15:50:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never thought that it could happen to me but it did. I think it is possible to have strong feelings for more than one person at a time. THat just means that you have a bunch of love to give. I have also found out that you can have a soul mate and a sex mate.
2006-09-19 15:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps this would be alright for you. But it won't be alright for either one of the men you are involved with. And if they find out what's going on, then you may end up without any man at all.
2006-09-19 15:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is when you are thinking of ONLY that one person. having more than 1 person to love cheapens the word, and is disrespectful to the guys.
2006-09-19 15:52:12 · answer #5 · answered by dudekunle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you still love your boyfriend then stay with him..but if you feel that your much in love with this other guy then go for it..if thats could make you happy..pray to god ask for his guidance.
2006-09-19 16:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by nice girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on with ur long relationship,don't jeopardise ur future b/cos of a new guy.
2006-09-19 15:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by my flame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finish with the bf first ...unless you are into 3-somes.
seriously though, men dont like women who cheat any more than women like men who cheat ... your actions speak volumes, what do you want your actions to say about you?
2006-09-19 15:50:28 · answer #8 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the perfect time to explore 3some
2006-09-19 15:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by Sumitha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on or have a threesome.
2006-09-19 15:51:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋