okay theres this guy i've known since 5th grade i just found out from one of his great friends who is by the way one of my other friends bf that he wanted to ask me out. So anyway i've been avoiding him alll day which has been really hard since he is my friend he said he was going 2 call me today!!!!wat do i do i like him i even have a crush on him i just don't know wat 2 say?????
2006-09-19 08:44:18 · 34 answers · asked by me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you like him and have those sort of feelings for him then say yes I would love to go out with you...lol
If you don't have those feelings then don't lead him on...he is your friend, and you should be honest with him.
Good Luck!
2006-09-19 08:46:38 · answer #1 · answered by sclay95843 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, calm down! You like him, right? Then remember that this is a start to getting what you want; a relationship with him! You're just nervous and excited, which is understandable, but you are sabotaging your chances by avoiding him. You gotta get started somewhere. I say find him and start a good conversation. Don't be giggly or silly, but don't be serious and scary. First word to say is "Hi". Then let it flow. Just be nice, ok? Things should work out fine.
2006-09-19 08:52:46 · answer #2 · answered by meillee44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him ask you out and then you need to accept - go out with him and see if the two of you will click - if you do then great you may be on the way to a great relationship with him - if you don't then just tell him that you may be better off as friends - whatever you do don't do anything that would jeopardize the two you being friends if this doesn't work out. let him ask you out but you call him and don't wait on him to call you - make him feel better about you avoiding him today. tell him that you were pre occupied today and had a lot of stuff going on. ask him what he was going to tell you or ask you today. good luck.
2006-09-19 08:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax, don't avoid him because that will make him think you're not interested. he's obviously liked u for a while without being able to get up the courage to ask you out, so if you ignore him it's gonna knock him right down and he won't ever ask you again, trust me, i'm a guy!
2006-09-19 08:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by Dave H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and say, "I heard you were going to ask me out. What's taking so long?" By doing that you are basically saying yes to a question that he hasn't asked and gives him confidence to ask. If he asks, your both set. If he doesn't, then he's an idiot and doesn't deserve you. Plus, if he doesn't, then you know that you need to find someone else.
2006-09-19 08:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by tbayxxxv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he calls make small talk and talk like you normally would.. ask him how his day was and so on. if he asks you out say yes if you do. if youre in the heat of the moment and want to say no.. dont! you know you want to and it will just send him the wrong message if you change your mind.
2006-09-19 08:48:17 · answer #6 · answered by jc2946 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him in the tone that you always speak to him. Be yourself and relax. Think positive! And Relax and breathe! Do all of that in the privacy of your home. Not around him! LOL! If he like you and you like him I'm sure you're going to be on cloud nine tomorrow.
Wishing you well!
2006-09-19 08:59:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say what is on your mind. I wish you luck. It happens to all of us. The best thing to think about is that he is just as nervous as you and you already know that he likes you. I don't think he is worried about how you act just as long as you say you will go out with him. I hope this helps you.
2006-09-19 08:47:55 · answer #8 · answered by Bizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asks you out just say yes but that even if you break up you still want to be friends.
2006-09-19 08:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by AB &♥; 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
so if you want to go out with him, let him ask and you accept be thrilled you like him and he you....its really not that difficult. the really great thing is you both are friends and already know each other pretty well so dating will be a little easier, just be yourselves.
2006-09-19 08:46:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋