I'm curious to know how it rates with the masses.I'm 32 and in my experience after thinking back quanity was never a problem,but quality is much "harder" to achieve.I think that I would rather have less sexual encounters and they be mind blowing than to have numerous encounters and they be so so.How about you guys and gals enlighten me.
2006-09-19 08:49:07 · 28 answers · asked by sjwest74 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
EXCELLENT QUESTION!!!especially from a man asking the question. I agree QUALITY IS IT!!!. I have the best sex with my man after not having it all week, when we have sex too frequent it isnt nearly as good, when we wait till the weekends it is special and excellent. I just wish my man would be satisfied with just the weekend sex. I think Quality is more important than quantity!
2006-09-19 09:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by foxyraley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course quality is more important of quantity. We all remember great moments and very few so so moments.
Sex positions are important: if you only use one then boredom eventually will ensue. But not all are suitable for all. Same position can be painful, or fail to achieve satisfaction for the partner.
Good or Great Sex usually depends on trust between the participants, and understanding what is exciting to
the other participant. It is not enough just to know how go through the mechanics, without caressing the ego and imagination correctly. The quality of sex depends on all those involved putting effort into the activity. If you don’t give 100% then you don’t get back anywhere near as much satisfaction.
One can have quick, rushed sex without preparation, forethought, or scheduling and make it work; but to do so every time will become frustrating for person involved. Good Sex, should happen regularly. If the intervals between getting together are too far apart, othe participant may stray away or become disinterested.
If one or both participants in sex goes away unsatisfied, or feeling that they need more from the activity, then there is a problem that needs to be discussed. Some people believe that continually having sex with the same partner eventually makes one jaded, or bored; simply going through the motions as creativity and variation ends. This means that introducing a new element to the game to create a new spark of excitement. Good or Great Sex, cannot be learned purely from a book. Hands on
experience is vital, as is continued experimentation.
One poet the great sex is to learn to love one woman in thousands of ways, very few people know this secret they love numerous women in one way without intensity and satisfaction just enjoying mechanics.
2006-09-19 09:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Definately quality. It is good to have a little time in between, because that's what can make the quality - the tension of waiting. It's like if you could eat mexican food everyday, it would get old and you would lose interest. But if you go every now and then, the food taste so much better because you crave it.
2006-09-19 09:07:16 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs. Waiting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
QUALITY. any one can go after sex steady and have it constant BUT... where is the feeling of achievement,of wow,I'm good. You've heard of the saying "Wham Bam,Thank you mamm" so how did the woman feel afterwards????LIKE SHE GOT CHEATED OUT. If you want to build a reputation for a real lover...make sure the woman walks away telling how wonderful and loving you were .and nothow you reminded her of a rabbit in heat and that she almost didn't notice you were even there.My husband always MAKES sure I am satisfied before he stops the show and in return, I make sure he is also by the time for the end of the show. That makes it SPECIAL to both of us so we're not interested in checking out how it would be with some one else
2006-09-19 09:03:34 · answer #4 · answered by lcj43938 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is so easy to get quantity, but doing something badly over and over does not improve quality. sex is okay, good sex is great but the really mind blowing "wow what just happened" sex is one of the best possible human experiences. there is a big difference between physical sex with just someone and a life altering experience with someone who loves you so very much and can express this in a sexual way. not everyone can orgasm until they pass out from bliss.
2006-09-21 06:36:14 · answer #5 · answered by Vivian Vixen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quality definitely, because quantity U can get at any time, u just have to be there out & indefinite quantity is available & for quality U have to wait & do some research.
2006-09-19 08:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The good sex need the both, Quality and Quantity.
2006-09-19 08:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by abotraka777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I actually prefer "sexual" encounters to be few and far between, and yes, it's nice when the sex is good - but there's so much stuff to do besides having sex all the time.
2006-09-19 08:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quality!
Heavy Heavy Passion....Built up Fast in a few short moments...
2006-09-19 09:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quality, definitely.
2006-09-19 08:51:42 · answer #10 · answered by bsmart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋