Family & Relationships - 19 September 2006

2006-09-19 12:42:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and where did u find him?
and are u happy?

2006-09-19 12:42:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do about our relationship it feels like we have just hit this plateau and are stuck in this dead spot....is this normal?HELP

2006-09-19 12:42:13 · 22 answers · asked by gabriellagrace67 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well there is this boy that i really like, and i am not sure if he likes me, He stares at me all the time, and he talks to me all the time. I am in 8th grade, and my boyfriend is in 7th, i like him, but i really like this other guy, he flirst with me all the time. What should I do?????

2006-09-19 12:42:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so yeahh tell me
id love to knoww
;]]]

2006-09-19 12:41:57 · 22 answers · asked by solochick101 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 12:41:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We just moved to the neighborhood in Feburary, so I'm still getting to know people. I was warned about a little boy who is 8 yrs. old and sexually asaulted an 11 yr old while he was sleeping when he spent the night at his house. He aslo said some pretty sexual things to him. When the 11 yr olds mother confronted the 8 yr olds parents they seem pretty non chalant about it. Well all the other parents have stopped letting this kid come around. Well guess what? He showed up at my door yesterday to play with my 6 yr old daughter. They ride the same bus to school. Not really knowing who he was I let them play together. I just found out HE's The 8 yr old in question.
So now how do I get this kid to not come around anymore without hurting his feelings? He's been nothing but polite when he's here, but I'm not willing to risk something happening to my kids before I chase him off, but like I said he's 8. I can't be mean to him.

2006-09-19 12:40:54 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

NOT NERDS CUTE GUYS

2006-09-19 12:40:07 · 1 answers · asked by Sincerely Me. 3 in Singles & Dating

I am a freshman in high school, and just recently moved to this town. The whole town is obsessed with sports. I absolutely hate sports. I love music and art, but no one in this school is interested in any of that. I've had this social anxiety problem since 6th grade, and I can't stand it. No one in school talks to me, and I can't get up the courage to even say hi to people. I'ts like my voice is lost, and when I do speak it doesn't some out the way I want it to. I'm sick of being a loner and feeling depressed. Theres been a lot of family issues in my home, and I strongly believed that has helped influence the problem. I don't want to talk to my dad about this problem at all, I've tried, he just doesn't get it. I think he is worried about doctors putting me on meds. He doesn't want medication to harm me, whether it be addiction, or just harming my body in general. Any advice would be great. Please don't say join clubs, band. I didn't like band, tried it. Clubs r all sport

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I guess I forgot to state the obvious....I HAVE 00000000 FRIENDS!!!!!! I SIT ALONE AND THINK TO MYSELF ALL DAY!!!!! IT IS ****** BORING AND I AM SICK OF IT!!!!!!

2006-09-19 12:39:51 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my married life suxs, big time.no sex for over 7 years-help!

2006-09-19 12:39:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Some will flame me. But though I love & respect my wife, the fire has gone out of our marriage and sex is non-existent. Even when it does happen on that one-in-a-blue-moon occasion, it feels soulless & devoid of any passion. It has been going on for more than 3yrs in a 7yr marriage. We have and love our kids. They take up her time, but mine as well. We have talked but it seems she has no time, energy or desire for me, & she often admits as much. It does not help that I try to eat right & stay fit while my wife does not.

She is in many ways a great wife, but w/o passion our relationship seems more like friends than husband &wife, and certainly not lovers.

On the one hand, I don't want to cheat. I do think it is disrespectful, of course. And I don't want to do anything to disrupt my marriage or hurt my kids.

On the other hand, I think lack of sex is a problem, and I cannot see myself going through the rest of my life like this.

Suggestions? Does anyone feel the same way?

2006-09-19 12:38:34 · 52 answers · asked by Mister? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So there is this guy who I like, he's my friend and he keeps hinting that he wants to hang out with me more and sends me online messages and everything. I have no clue if he likes me or is just being friendly but my friend says that she told him that she liked him and he said that they could still be friends but has no clue as to whether or not he likes her. He's been hanging around me increasingly but my friend says he does that with everyone and that i shouldnt get my hopes up.... what do i do?

2006-09-19 12:38:27 · 7 answers · asked by prometida 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

so yeahh tell me
id love to knoww
;]]]

2006-09-19 12:38:21 · 17 answers · asked by solochick101 2 in Singles & Dating

Guys sometimes wear them to look more stylish or theyre trying to look intelligent. Do you think its tacky or stupid?

2006-09-19 12:37:35 · 8 answers · asked by juju 3 in Singles & Dating

I would feel really bad just saying it to him..... and I don't want to write him a note because notes can be misleading at times..... PLEASE HELP... and remember I DON'T WANT TO BE MEAN!!!!

2006-09-19 12:37:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy. We have met this year. We are friends and so are all my other friends are friends with him. I really like him. He is nice, sweet, and actually cares for people. He has a real nice body and is a kickboxer. I told him I like him and said I hope he isnt weird around me. He said he won't be weird around me and that we are still going to hang out. Is that a sign that he likes me? If not then how do I get him to like me. What should I do? HELP!!! Im trying to get him to ask me to our High Schools Homecoming Football Game.

2006-09-19 12:37:25 · 11 answers · asked by Kaitlen 2 in Singles & Dating

am i over stepping to ask?and why do i allways end up looking like some ****** .i`m the only one in this house that is not a drug user.and why ca`nt it be leagle to hire someone to help.i`m not about to give up a lifetime and walk away.i have worked for what i have and i`m not giveing it up.all i want is a place to call my own and a woman to love me and be my best friend.i`m lonly in my own home even god want help.i love everyone but somethings got to give.i think i need a life the one i`ve worked for.

2006-09-19 12:36:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok i am not saying i am ugly AT ALL B/C im not but no one in my middle school likes me i mean im NOT UGLY AM I INVISABLE OR SOMETHING TELL ME SOETHING I CAN DO GOSH!!!!!

2006-09-19 12:36:26 · 6 answers · asked by Hello whats up girl 1 in Singles & Dating

and I don't nessecarily like him but it seems like I do like him( I know that might not make sense) I think about him Alot and he's really hot But I hate him because he has a huge ego and I mean HUGE but everytime I'm around him I get sucked in,then again I CAN"T STAND HIM.what do I do I just heard from an anonymous friend that he was just using me to get information and stuff ( because we were friends last year and the year b4 and the year b4) I'm not like his little toy that he can keep playing but I kinda miss him too. I keep telling myself I'm not going to talk to him and it works for like a month or two but then he draws me in again. what do I do Help Me!

2006-09-19 12:35:56 · 9 answers · asked by If nothing lasts forever 2 in Singles & Dating

is it because me and hubby yells alot,and then we all fight including my mom.i think i have stress,

2006-09-19 12:35:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-19 12:35:48 · 26 answers · asked by asianchik 1 in Singles & Dating

is it okay for girls to be h*rny? I'm like always h*rny when i think of this guy. I try wearing sl*tty clothes to get his attention. what's the best way of trying to get a guys attention? He's seems like h*rny guy also. I like him yet i just want to f**k him.

2006-09-19 12:34:54 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 12:34:49 · 4 answers · asked by 103lber 1 in Singles & Dating

I'd like to have my wedding in the fall, I love the autumn colors. I was thinking about maybe the first or second week of October. I'd like it to be late enough so that there are some leaves on the trees left, but not too cold. Has anyone had a fall wedding in Chicago or a city with a similar climate? How did it work out?

2006-09-19 12:34:37 · 10 answers · asked by itsme! 2 in Weddings

i am currently going clubbing with my friends everyweek an i allways get buzzed

2006-09-19 12:34:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Following a recenty trip to Genes Reunited - I found that I had a Half Sister. I have not met my father and wonder if I should contact my half sister and let her know I exist?

2006-09-19 12:34:23 · 17 answers · asked by Simon 2 in Family

So, my birthday is tomorrow, and I'm about 2.5 hours from home (non-rush hour traffic...) at college. I turn 18, and my boyfriend of 15+months told me he wasn't going to come down. My other friend, who goes to my college as well from my highschool, shares my birthday and his parents invited me out to dinner with them. I accepted.

However, my boyfriend just called and I mentioned the dinner. He admitted he was thinking about coming up and surprising me... but he'd have to leave his house at 1:30PM to get here by 4:30PM when my classes are over... and he'd have to leave my college at 11PM to get back at 1AM in order to be up for work the next morning at 8AM. I would love to see him, but I feel that 5.5-6 hours of driving is a lot for him to do in one day. I would offer him to stay over the night, but I have early classes and he has work early in the morning and we wouldn't get much sleep (:P). I'm extremely torn about the entire situation... how should we do this? Come up or no?

2006-09-19 12:33:46 · 13 answers · asked by collegegirl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is to all the fathers who ex's have physical custody of there children (primary guardian)

Since the mother has physical custody how does you're visitation work, how many days out of the week or month do u have youre kids?

I have mediation tomorrow with my ex, and I was going to go for Joint Legal Custody (so we both have a say in the childs well being) and was going to give my ex physical custody. But after doing some reading, when it comes to visitation with a mother who has physical custody, I may not get to see my kids much. So I was thinking maybe I should go with Joint Legal and Joint Physcial....even though I know we wont see them 50/50 but I know I would most likely see them more then 2 days every 2 weeks...Anyway, to any divorced or single fathers, tell me your custody arrangments and visitation, I'd like to get some insight before tomorrow, thanks!

2006-09-19 12:32:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-19 12:32:33 · 18 answers · asked by I Wonder? 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 12:32:04 · 4 answers · asked by bulldog 1 in Singles & Dating