Family & Relationships - 19 September 2006

i go to school with this boy iam afraid he might say no if i ask him out.weve gotten to the beach because my mom babysit him and we hold hands.Ever since then hes been looking at me.What should i do?

2006-09-19 12:31:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are all coming to Australia with me for my brothers wedding
in 3 weeks time ..
Should i change the booking for my daughter and myself to buisness class so we have a comfortable flight or sit with my mum and sis n nephew in econamy?????
PS my brother is paying the extra..

2006-09-19 12:31:33 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

how come non of the boys like me i need a boyfriend

2006-09-19 12:31:24 · 18 answers · asked by baby boy 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and all my friends think he likes me and when ever I talk to him hes all quiet and I don't know like yeah.

2006-09-19 12:31:20 · 10 answers · asked by Courtney(: 3 in Singles & Dating

why is it almost always in the face

2006-09-19 12:30:31 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

help me, my friend has had a boyfriend for like one month, she is 18 and they are engaged to be married in 7 years, i feel as though she has abandoned me. I always call and she is with him. She can never hang out with me anymore. To make matters worse, im not aloud to be with her boyfriend and her because he's 18 and im 16. I try to plan things, but when i keep askin her to spend the night or whatever she forgets to ask her mom, or she already has something planned with him. I tried to talk to her about it but she just said she was really busy. I haven't seen her outside of school for 4 months. We have known each other for 11 years. What should i do?

2006-09-19 12:29:31 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he is cool or she thinks he is and she thinks she is not cool but has an average amount of friends.
he is a jerk and goes out with a nice black girl.he wll probly hurt her 2 cuz he only luvs her 4 her booty.i dont know he may like the whole package no not parts. her soul and ****.my friend is coco 4 him she posted 2 Qs on the internet her id is LarkL take a look see. anyays wat shud i do she is imgining things now and we think he may be flirty w/ her well i dont dont beleive her but i dont no who to believe me or her?
LUvs MOLLS

2006-09-19 12:29:16 · 7 answers · asked by minimollypolly 1 in Friends

So theres this girl that I met 2 weeks ago. I really like her a lot. There is this other guy who met her the same day, and i found out he likes her too. I wanna tell her how I feel before he gets a chance to make a move, but I feel like it's too soon to say anything. I don't want her to think I am making this decision to fast. What do you think I should do?
Help Soon!
Thanks!

2006-09-19 12:28:23 · 27 answers · asked by cowgoesmoo31 2 in Singles & Dating

I currently got a new girlfriend yesterday. Shes beautiful, and i liked since last year. The thing is i worry so much that shell cheat or break up with me for some stupid reason. I always get like this when a new girl comes into my life. And im recovering from a broken heart. And im afraid of getting a nother one. It sucks and it hurts. I nearly commited suicide last time. But believe me im fine now about my depression. But how can i stop worrying about her?

2006-09-19 12:28:07 · 10 answers · asked by eighty dee 3 in Singles & Dating

f.y.i he is a total badass

2006-09-19 12:28:06 · 1 answers · asked by WILD 4 RKO 5 in Singles & Dating

I am having a flowergirl and no ring bearer. The flowergirl will be 11, she she is a bit on the old side for a flowergirl. Rather than have her throw flowers out of a basket, I was thinking that she could be in charge of the rings. At first I thought of doing a basket with a pillow type thing in it, similar to what ar ing bearer would carry.

BUT..I don't really like baskets. Does anyone have any cute or creative ideas on how we could have her carry the rings?

2006-09-19 12:27:34 · 12 answers · asked by abbya11111 2 in Weddings

read this poem i wrote and tell me what you think please.. thanks!!

Show me who you are,
Stop me, before I go too far.

Are you leading me on,
Please don't just end up being gone.

Please lower that bar,
Don't be afraid to show me who you are.

You're scared to get hurt,
You're scared to get treated like dirt.

Yet I'm not going to hurt you,
If only you really knew.

I understand you're scared,
But only if you would've dared.

You could have had me,
But friends we will be..

2006-09-19 12:27:18 · 24 answers · asked by Andi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well my son is 18, on his first birthday we made a beautiful video of his party. For some reason I wanted to show his younger sister the video. The outside sleeve said Birthday Party... we just put it in the VCR and it is "Barney". I am so upset

2006-09-19 12:27:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

read this poem i wrote and tell me what you think please.. thanks!!

Show me who you are,
Stop me, before I go too far.

Are you leading me on,
Please don't just end up being gone.

Please lower that bar,
Don't be afraid to show me who you are.

You're scared to get hurt,
You're scared to get treated like dirt.

Yet I'm not going to hurt you,
If only you really knew.

I understand you're scared,
But only if you would've dared.

You could have had me,
But friends we will be..

2006-09-19 12:27:06 · 10 answers · asked by Andi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-19 12:26:55 · 13 answers · asked by mememe 2 in Singles & Dating

he is really cute

2006-09-19 12:26:32 · 6 answers · asked by WILD 4 RKO 5 in Singles & Dating

i crashed at a buddies after a small party/ get together. the next morning he and his wife went about an hours drive to pick up a pet. i was sitting there bored and without any wheels. I noticed he had tapes from all of our parties on the dresser. So i popped in our new years party tape from this year, and POW! it was him and his wife having crazy sex, and it was labled new years eve party at steve's. now i cant look at them the same. it just feels weird, but i dont want to be like, hey, i saw....

2006-09-19 12:26:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-19 12:25:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boy J.B. (well call him that) say that when he's having sex with his girl he like to tell her that "he's (I'm) gonna give her a baby"....

And he uses this to talk dirty.

Not only did I laugh, I slapped his momma laughing and I told him that could never be used in dirty talk and women wouldn't get aroused by saying that.

But then I thought...could saying that really turn a woman on? I still say no ladies. :)

2006-09-19 12:25:50 · 10 answers · asked by Da Nun Uttas Story 2 in Singles & Dating

If your friend is always calling you stupid and retarded for no reason is it a reflection of how she feels?
about herself? i hate people like that. they think you should own up to their shitty feelings just because they feel low. Nevertheless, I cannot stand that direspectful biatch. she is not going to use me to make hereself feel better. i always wondered about people like her! esp, since I don't call people names, why do others?anyways this ex-friend flunked out of junior college and i have a bachelors degree from an elite university. One time we went to a store and she did'nt know how to deduct 15% off the price of a shirt. is she jealous of me or just trying to use me to make herself feel better? I hear her call her 7 yr old son stupid all the time and I feel bad for him....but im not her son so I dont have to put up with her crap.

2006-09-19 12:25:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i live in a small town so nobody from my school asks eachother out because they know it will make things weird. The problem is i REALLY want a bf. so what do u think?

2006-09-19 12:25:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A senior associate and colleague recently transferred from our NYC office, and I must admit, I have had been intensely attracted to him for several years. Our relationship has been strictly professional. We have had dinner meetings at the Harvard club and Yale club in NYC on several occasions. Since transferring to the DC office two months ago, we have had dinner at eight different restaurants.
I had become impatient, and asked him if he had ever thought of our
relationship becoming more personal and less professional. To my surprise he informed me that although he has great respect for me professionally, and finds me attractive he doesnt date white women. I was astonished and embarrassed by his candor, and I obviously misread the signals. I wanted to know why, and every answer he provided was unacceptable. I asked the following questions:

1. Is he gay or attached to someone? He said no he is not gay, he prefers dating black women.

2. Did he find me interesting? He said yes, but he would prefer to remain friends.

3. Is he concerned about racial scrutiny? He said no.

4. Is he concerned that this might effect his career? He replied no, but he would prefer to not participate in office romance.

5. If I were black would he take the chance of on an office romance? He said yes.

6. Had he ever dated interrcially? He said yes, through his highschool years,but has only dated black women since college.

7. At the time, I was aware that he is bi-racial, in response, I said isnt your mother caucasion. He responded yes. However he further stated that his father is black and therefore he too is a black man.

8. I said you mean you are bi-racial. He politely corrected me, no a black man.
(He looks about 62, with fair skin, green eyes, waving dark hair, and crisp dialect. He hardly looks black. I assumed he was Italian until I saw his college degree on the wall in his office. I inquired as to why one of the degrees on the wall in his office was from morehouse college, and another colleague informed me of his personal and professional background.)

9. The last question I posed, if your mother is white and father is black, why are you so against being in the same type of relationship, did you have bad experiences growing up? He said that he is not apposed to others choosing an interracial relationship. As a morehouse man there is no need for him to do so.

Then he asked me to respect his preference, and he changed the subject. I was thinking to myself, what the hell does that mean? As politically incorrect as this may sound, I understand why white men would not date black women. However, I DO NOT understand how a black man would not want to date a white woman who is on the same social and professional level with similar pedigree, that he says he finds attractive. I am insulted and embarrassed. On Tuesday, I will pretend that I have not a problem with his preference but I really have problem with it. It is more than rejection. I dont understand this concept.

2006-09-19 12:25:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you sound like you might know something she might have said ,but honestly nothing was wrong with our relationship prior to me getting locked up and why get rid of my stuff and come to see me every sunday and continue to say she loved me in front of everyone if you have any idea please let me know

2006-09-19 12:24:48 · 2 answers · asked by ransom4660 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i really help yes all my questions are about the same guy i cud do with both sex's point of views here plz HELP !!!!!!

2006-09-19 12:24:46 · 2 answers · asked by mangos 1 in Singles & Dating

home from my sisters (some of you thought i meant the rude come but NO) celebrating her 40th birthday..I love my sister do you love your siblings???

2006-09-19 12:23:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if there is a God, then why doesn't he answer my prayers regarding my marriage? i pray for my marriage to be normal, loving, and strong. i never have felt secure with this marriage. i deserve a good marriage like everyone else. i don't feel loved in this marriage, and yet i love with everything i got. i asked God, to please help me stop loving him so i can walk away, because i am so weak when it comes to him. he would leave me at the drop of a hat if i made him mad. 9 years i have been married and i can never leave. i seem to love him more than ever and i hate that i can't do the same thing he can do. i don't have any closeness with family of my own, and there is no way that will ever change. i have no friends because i am always working. he has family and friends. i am a great person and i am not ugly, and yet i never feel good enough for him. ill do anything to please him. what can i do ?

2006-09-19 12:23:45 · 22 answers · asked by mercedes1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-19 12:23:44 · 9 answers · asked by afrprince77 2 in Family

My boyfriend and I have started going out for the second time. I want to make it more interesting than it was last time. Lately he's been acting kind of bored and a little worried. Does anybody have any ideas or suggestions?

2006-09-19 12:23:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you like shy girls? Do they seem attractive...or do guys like girls who are "out there" and loudish????

2006-09-19 12:22:55 · 8 answers · asked by .:♥ Fire Within♥ :. 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-19 12:22:50 · 1 answers · asked by Sunderland Boy 1 in Friends