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I currently got a new girlfriend yesterday. Shes beautiful, and i liked since last year. The thing is i worry so much that shell cheat or break up with me for some stupid reason. I always get like this when a new girl comes into my life. And im recovering from a broken heart. And im afraid of getting a nother one. It sucks and it hurts. I nearly commited suicide last time. But believe me im fine now about my depression. But how can i stop worrying about her?

2006-09-19 12:28:07 · 10 answers · asked by eighty dee 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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its only been a day man.
you just gotta put yourself out there, and hope you dont get hurt.
relax and enjoy it while it lasts, and dont worry about what might happen

2006-09-19 12:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by thankgodformaryjane 4 · 0 0

First off, congrats on the new girlfriend and recovering from a broken <3. I assume that alot of people get like this. It is normal. I think in this relationship trust needs to be earned first. She is probably worrying about the same thing. This is some advice that I received from a friend it may sound stupid but believe me it works. Wait it out. Get to really know the girl and you will see what goes on from there.

2006-09-19 19:35:02 · answer #2 · answered by Mistress Karina 1 · 0 0

First of all if you are depressed you should seek professional help. Second, I believe that positive things come from positive thoughts and negative things come from negative thoughts. If all you do is worry it will come through in how you treat your girlfriend, how you react to things, and how you deal with them. It's like willing the worst to happen. Third, you have to love yourself before you can expect anyone else to truly love you. If you are depressed it tells me that there are things about yourself that you don't care much about. Work on these things first and foremost and learn to accept the things you can't change. Instead of worrying so much, enjoy and appreciate the here and now. There are no guarantees in anything. And, if the relationship doesn't work out then just move on with your life.

2006-09-19 19:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by looking for answers 2 · 0 0

You are caring around a lot of baggage, as it seems you are not alright, because if you was, you would not be still having all of these feelings, you have to remember that everyone is different, may be you should talk to a professional, because you are still insecure. You need to start to have fun, and not be worrying about if she is going to cheat of you, learn how to relax, If you bring all this to your relationship, she will leave you also, Cool out, and enjoy yourself.

2006-09-19 19:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0 0

look buddy you need to just trust that whatever happens, happens for the best. if she leaves you than she doesn't love you for the great guy you are and you don't deserve to spend the rest of your life with someone who doesn't love you. and this may sound hard but if you start worrying about it to much it may become a self fulfilling prophesy. it where you worry about something so much that you accidently make it happen so relax and enjoy her while you have her

2006-09-19 19:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by carmelfude2003 4 · 0 0

I have the exact same problem . My ex-boyfriend cheated on me and I entered a new relationship . I feel as though I can't trust anyone. I plan on speaking to my new boyfriend about how I feel . Talk to your your new flame . But when you get down to it if somebody is going to cheat they are and it says more about them than it does you.

2006-09-19 19:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by primamaria04 5 · 0 0

You aren't very trusting are you? Not every person in your life will hurt you, I've been there and done that many times in fact I could be a poster child for attracting bad relationships. Please trust her untill you have reason not too you will be suprised at how much more you enjoy life.

2006-09-19 19:34:53 · answer #7 · answered by osu2720@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0 0

Act like you dont like her and treat her like trash.

The moment you show you'll do anything for her, she'll know your worthless.

Act tough and dont commit verbally, just show her you like her through the things you do to her.

2006-09-19 19:31:41 · answer #8 · answered by fcsgolden 2 · 0 0

right now all you can really do be good to her and trust her. and if you are a good guy and she does break your heart then she's not worth it anyway.

2006-09-19 19:36:11 · answer #9 · answered by hungryforHoney 2 · 0 0

just have to trust her dont go all crazy or possesive

2006-09-19 19:30:10 · answer #10 · answered by chuckleburry 2 · 0 0

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