Family & Relationships - 18 September 2006

i feel that i am a good catch....i love deeply and passionately however i'm not pushy with guys to get into a relationship...but for sum reason i can't find a man who wants me as much as i want him!!! help!!!

2006-09-18 17:34:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found my bestfriend from high school, and we could have been married by now but i move very far away, we talk in the phone for years and then life happend and we stop talking, we never dated in high school because I didn't like him like that, or so I though at the moment, anyways, I found him and now he is married, but every time we talk he sais he wants to be with me and once he finishes school he want to move where I am. I don't want to break up a marrige, they have a baby, and I am not like that, but he is the love of my life, and it sounds selfish but I do want him to come and be with me. I am so confused. Should I presue this? should I give up and tell him to stay?. Is he been honest with me? should I believe him?..... I don't want to stop leaving my life all I do is think about this and is making me sick, Please help. what should I do?

2006-09-18 17:34:17 · 28 answers · asked by jayden 4 in Singles & Dating

2day we was planing our wedding . He told me he luv what not & he said if u luv me ten we will do it then i said no he ets mad & walks out & told me the weddings off but i really don't think he ment it but its a that was a sign of what he wants be4 i wanted it & i am not 2 sure if want a Husand thingking he can get it anytime of the day or hr when he feels like it i thinks we shoul both wait but he not a virgin but i am. The last TIME i check U R SUPPOSE 2 WAIT UNTIL u get marry! PLEASE HELP!!!!

2006-09-18 17:34:05 · 11 answers · asked by Monica 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am looking for a guy that is 30ish now and had the nickname of hollywood. he lived in the downtown paducah kentucky area in the early 1990's. please help me find him - he and my husband were friends and i would like for them to get back in touch with each other. Thanks

2006-09-18 17:32:41 · 1 answers · asked by ryryey 2 in Friends

2006-09-18 17:32:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just can't find on the web any of my former minor friends (that means under 18), i would like to know where they at

I know some places, but it seems that gives me info of ADULT people only

2006-09-18 17:32:17 · 11 answers · asked by big brotha 1 in Weddings

What if I also told you that everytime we talked on the phone my blood pressure goes up and I get all excited what would you think then? Would you think I was crazy or would you take me serious? Would you comment or not say a word?

2006-09-18 17:30:50 · 11 answers · asked by Busy Lady 2010 7 in Singles & Dating

My question is should i ask him about his "Ex-girlfriend" or just not say anything about it.?
I met this guy (Jason) over the summer because he came out from Rhode Island to my house in California with my couisn and her husband and we hit it off. We have so much in common. We talk on the phone almost every night. He tells me he is be moving to california in a year with his sister and friend (i am so excited for that). But When he came out here he had a girlfriend. We kissed and then i asked him about his girlfriend and he said he was going to breakup with her. Then like 3 weeks later(after he had left to go home) i asked if he had broken up with his girlfriend in a sly way and he told me "yes and that she is crazy because she thinks that we are going to get back together." I now 2 months later look on his "Ex-girlfriends" myspace and see pictures of them together and all this talk about them being together. My question is should i ask him about his "Ex-girlfriend" or just not say anything about it. I feel bad for his "girlfriend" but i really like Jason.

2006-09-18 17:30:32 · 8 answers · asked by whitneyerude 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 17:28:59 · 24 answers · asked by Dorkboy 7 in Singles & Dating

well lately ive had a crus on this really sweet guy.... he was really mean b4... but now hes not...... hes been talking to me....... and i was so sure he likes me...... but now he just acts like im not there at all..... my friend says hes a poser and a fake......... is that true?

2006-09-18 17:28:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 17:27:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love her, but I never see her. We've argued about this, and I said she was being distant, now she calls me like 3 times a day so I know that she cares. But I still never see her (she has good reasons 2 jobs, volunteering, school). What should I do?

2006-09-18 17:26:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i just got called a jerk face for inan answer i personally thought it was reasonable and appropriate, i was accused of being racist, i mean im blk i seen a few things im not going to put more of it out there my question was to probably solve the problem, i mean if u dont like some1s question just dont reply or state u dont like it not insult the person. i mean lets help each other out

2006-09-18 17:26:02 · 13 answers · asked by life 1 in Friends

I mean now days everyone thinks it's normal and they have made it accepable into our culture. But it's against everything I belive in.

2006-09-18 17:25:38 · 25 answers · asked by banana 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-18 17:25:16 · 12 answers · asked by mikerob08 1 in Singles & Dating

Her parents are fighting and it may resalt in her moving away she's my only friend in this town. I like having friends it makes me fell comfortable around other people. she helps me talk to people I'm to shy to make to many friends and I've never been able to keep friends easily something bad happens to me and I push them away. In Escondedo I never and still don't have problems making friends. All together I've only had 7 friends within 8 years and theres been time when I've had no friends for 2 years strait and within that time I never spoke to people out of my family unless they talked to me first and then I never said the right thing to make friends. Now everyone I know think I'm stuck up... And I don't blame them. I act proud with out meaning it cuz I don't know what else to say. If I were them I'ld think I was stuck up too. What am I to do if she moves??? Help!

2006-09-18 17:25:12 · 1 answers · asked by AMIDREAMIN101 1 in Friends

2006-09-18 17:23:38 · 6 answers · asked by ghie 1 in Family

Why do guys always go for the skinny ditzy girls, why not date some with a good personality?

2006-09-18 17:22:46 · 9 answers · asked by camizoid 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you see physical characteristics or something else? Do you see abusers of the United States' welfare system or do you see people who work hard to make good lives for themselves and their families? Just honestly say whatever the image is when you hear or read the words Latin American.

2006-09-18 17:22:44 · 12 answers · asked by quietwalker 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

that i still have alot of feelings for my ex bf... and even tho i have a new bf.. and i seems like i cant get over him.. but hes over me..(as he says) what do i do?

2006-09-18 17:21:09 · 12 answers · asked by sugar_123000 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy name keith but i have a fiance but i think he'S cheating on me but well already have. But this boy knows i like him but i try 2 hide it & he tells me i should not do that but i really luv my finace but like the other by 2.They both r real nice but they both seem like they cheat but the other boy likes me so bad i am clueless abt what i should do plse HELP!!!!!!!

2006-09-18 17:20:52 · 11 answers · asked by Monica 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend can be very good (loving, attentive, gentle etc.) but also very bad (abusive, intimidating, blaming etc.) and I've stayed because I keep sight of the good and forgive the bad. However, I've caught him out with 4 big lies now. After the 3rd lie 2 months ago, I left, saying he had eroded my trust and ruined the relationship but he begged on his knees for another chance to show I can trust him. He's told 2 little and one massive lie since then. Whenever he's lied, he keeps up the elaborate stories until confronted with evidence. Since the breakup, I haven't shown the evidence so he has maintained the lies. Is it worth showing my hand anymore and confront him? I feel like he will always lie until confronted and it's hard to keep stumbling across facts that show up his lies. Why is it so hard for him to tell the truth, when I keep saying I won't judge him or get angry. Am I wrong to be so angry about this? I feel sad deciding to end this for good. Am I being hasty? Impulsive?

2006-09-18 17:20:33 · 23 answers · asked by noodlemcgoo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we are in 8th grade and her mom is super protective and thinks we are just friends so that cuts down the options

2006-09-18 17:20:28 · 16 answers · asked by bb 1 in Singles & Dating

Please serious answers only. I am 40ish and was married for 18 years and my husband played with himself every day at least once in the morning and again at night -- he said it was something all men HAD to do -- and I always thought that was completely normal -- but now talking to other people, they are telling me that it is not normal. So -- Please no smart remarks -- I am seriously wanting to get a idea of what is the norm !

Thank you

2006-09-18 17:19:47 · 20 answers · asked by mama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently broke up with my boyfriend after a short 6 mo's. I unfortunately lost contact with a few guys that I was kind of interested in to give the man I was dating my full attention. There were two that are on my mind a lot and I regret loosing contact. Is it unhealthy to want to start seeing other people so soon? I don't want to jump into another relationship but I wish I'd choose more wisely! I don't want a rebound just to... I don't know, I'm confused and regretful! Any help?

2006-09-18 17:18:46 · 3 answers · asked by Trisha 2 in Singles & Dating

On Saturday night, I went to a house party with a couple of friends where I met a guy. Initially, I'll admit it, I wasn't really trying to talk to him. But he was really friendly, so I decided to give him a chance. Long story short, we ended up talking for about two hours.

We exchanged phone numbers - he asked for mine first - but I haven't heard from him yet. Should I be worried? During the time we were talking, his childhood best friend, who I don't even know, made mention of how his friend really like me.

This may seem like a weird question, but when a guy asks a female for her number, how long should she wait for him to call? Or should I wait a couple of days and call him? I really like this guy and would appreciate your honest opinion. Thanks! :)

2006-09-18 17:17:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well, my 25 yr. old girlfriend likes me to come over to her apartment and check on things before she goes to bed at night...she gets kind of scared...i leave my german sheperd dog "buddy" to protect her and give her this stuffed animal to hold. I put a night light on in her room and tuck her in bed...often I have to sit on the bed and and hold her hand while telling her everything is going to be alright....then i end up leaving to go back to my place and lately she has been calling me up on my way home crying says she is scared and she needs me....what should I do?

2006-09-18 17:17:07 · 17 answers · asked by Sandstorm222 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband had an affair 4 months after I had our 3rd baby, which was his much longed for 1st son. We also have 2 girls aged 3 and 5. I want to know if anyone else has been able to make their marriage work after an affair. If so, how on earth do you be at peace with all the hurt and anger. I still love him, I wish I didn't, but I have come to realise that you just cannot turn off your feelings like a switch. But yet you cannot ignore the reality either. Should you make a marriage work for the sake of your kids or should you do what is best for you?

2006-09-18 17:15:57 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-18 17:15:55 · 8 answers · asked by Diana Renae M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i have not talked to my ex in about 3 weeks and the lasttime we talked she blocked me on aim and told me to leave her be. but today i get home from work and i have am facebook messge from her sayin Hey William...I'm just saying hi. I hope everything is ok...can you believe I got facebook. now im not sure if i sould write back or not b/c i really want to be with her but all the other times she had talked to me it like makes me think that she still care but then she will tell me to not to talk to her anymore i dont get it. what sould i do

2006-09-18 17:15:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating