My question is should i ask him about his "Ex-girlfriend" or just not say anything about it.?

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My question is should i ask him about his "Ex-girlfriend" or just not say anything about it.?
I met this guy (Jason) over the summer because he came out from Rhode Island to my house in California with my couisn and her husband and we hit it off. We have so much in common. We talk on the phone almost every night. He tells me he is be moving to california in a year with his sister and friend (i am so excited for that). But When he came out here he had a girlfriend. We kissed and then i asked him about his girlfriend and he said he was going to breakup with her. Then like 3 weeks later(after he had left to go home) i asked if he had broken up with his girlfriend in a sly way and he told me "yes and that she is crazy because she thinks that we are going to get back together." I now 2 months later look on his "Ex-girlfriends" myspace and see pictures of them together and all this talk about them being together. My question is should i ask him about his "Ex-girlfriend" or just not say anything about it. I feel bad for his "girlfriend" but i really like Jason.

Answer 1

maybe they still are together... maybe hes playing you both

Answer 2

Sweety, sweety,sweety....wake up and smell what the Rock is cooking? (Everybody says smell the coffee) He is playing you like a guitar. He is still with that girl. HELLO! She moved WITH HIM all the way from Rhode Island to California. Usually if a guy is planning to break up with a girl, he does it before leaving one place to go to another--that way, when he gets to the new place, he is free/single/available. I feel sorry for you but at the same time I want to slap you back to reality. Honey, oh my..., you are just a piece on the side still pathetically hanging on. I am almost in tears for you. Is he officially with you? I don't think he is. If he is, he is probably still with her too. Again, he moved to California with his girlfriend (here comes the part you're blind to) that he had all along before he met you and after he met you and while he talked on the phone to you and who he was with while kissing you. Baby, let me tell you something--if he will do it to her, he will do it to you. Trust me. You are setting yourself up. And when he breaks up with you for another girl or cheats on you with someone new, I hope you wont have the nerve to be shocked. And again, think about it, she has been with him long before you came to the picture...why would she have to lie about anything on her myspace page. If there is talk that they are still together on there, then Mr. SLY has probably given her more than enough reasons to believe that...if you know what I mean. Also, who does he live with? Who does his "ex "girlfriend live with since coming to Cali. WITH him?

Answer 3

I feel bad for you, too! I think this guy likes his cake on one coast, and being able to eat some on the other! He sees no danger in keeping a L.D relationship alive, in hopes that when he moves, he can cash in with some quick sack time right away. In the meantime, he's stringing the other poor girl along for as long as he can, racking up sack time with her until he cuts and runs to CA.

I may be wrong, but that's my gut feeling. Surely you can find someone closer to home to date one-on-one, can't you?

Answer 4

This question has been on here before. Yahoo must be running out of questions. Maybe I should ask a new one.

Answer 5

This question was way 2 long to read but let me tell you what my Mom told me...Everytime u mention her ..hes thinking of her...so what do u think ...?.......never say nothing about nothing..

Answer 6

YOU NEED TO SAY SOMETHING TO HIM ABOUT WHAT GOING ON HE MAY BE TRYING TO PLAY BOTH SIDE OF
'THE FENCE. CALL HIM ON BEFORE YOU GET IN TO DEEP

Answer 7

its not worth it to team up with jason who has double standards in life .............. better set up an agent to check out his matrimonial status ,,,,,,,,,b4 itz too late

Answer 8

either she's dillusional or he's playing with u