On Saturday night, I went to a house party with a couple of friends where I met a guy. Initially, I'll admit it, I wasn't really trying to talk to him. But he was really friendly, so I decided to give him a chance. Long story short, we ended up talking for about two hours.
We exchanged phone numbers - he asked for mine first - but I haven't heard from him yet. Should I be worried? During the time we were talking, his childhood best friend, who I don't even know, made mention of how his friend really like me.
This may seem like a weird question, but when a guy asks a female for her number, how long should she wait for him to call? Or should I wait a couple of days and call him? I really like this guy and would appreciate your honest opinion. Thanks! :)
2006-09-18 17:17:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why is everything always so complicated with women.. this is the kind of behavior that makes men think we are all crazy.. If you want to talk to him, call him. It's no big deal. Don't make a mountain out of a molehill. You have his # just like he has yours. So why does he have to be the one to make the 1st call..
2006-09-18 17:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by ami mena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait about a week and then call (hope for voice mail) and casually leave a message. If he picks up tell him you were just calling to say "HI" and that you enjoyed the conversation last week. He may be waiting for you while you are waiting for him...someone has to give in to get this thing started. There's also the possibility that he lost your number in which case he will be glad that you did call. If you leave a msg and don't get a call back...no big thing..there will always be another.
2006-09-19 00:24:50 · answer #2 · answered by freedom4ni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi
Some guys don't realize that women need to know that a phone call is important. General rule of thumb is within 5 days from asking for the phone number. If it is past that give him a call, he may have wrote down your number wrong or lost it. What is it going to hurt to call him, better make the step that to be waiting in limbo.
2006-09-19 00:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by Baseball inquisitive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's only Monday. He might subscribe to the whole "wait 4 days before you call her" crowd. If he doesn't call you by Thursday give him a call and keep it short. He may have even lost it. Hey, it happens.
Rod
2006-09-19 00:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by thedatepro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my best friend always believed that you/him should wait at least 3 days for the calls. You don't want to come across desperate do you?
2006-09-19 00:33:18 · answer #5 · answered by cocoa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wait a few days my friend....he could have been busy. or some guys have no organizational skills and could have lost he paper with your number on it....it cant hurt. even if it doesn't work out, you dint really get a chance to like him that much!
2006-09-19 00:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by halieysmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and ask him what he plans to do. Let him know that you plan to move on if he is not interested. Now the ball is in his court!
2006-09-19 00:25:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you working youself up into a frenzy... hello !!! it's the 21century.... so just call him, you never know he might appreciate you for taking the first step.
2006-09-19 00:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well give him a few days you dont know his schdule so he might just be busy or he might of lost your number so if he doesnt call you in acouple of days give him a buzz godd luck gurl
2006-09-19 00:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would wait at least a week and then I would call him.
2006-09-19 00:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by piglet564 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋