I love her, but I never see her. We've argued about this, and I said she was being distant, now she calls me like 3 times a day so I know that she cares. But I still never see her (she has good reasons 2 jobs, volunteering, school). What should I do?
2006-09-18 17:26:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she lives 15 minutes away
2006-09-18 17:32:49 · update #1
i am a virgin... its not about that, she is not ready, and I would never push her.
2006-09-18 17:36:28 · update #2
She sounds like a phenomenal woman! You should find something to keep you busy while she's away, like volunteering or something.
2006-09-18 17:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by tina m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn to make what little time You have, special. We all know that a small amount of time with the right Person, is so much better than a lot of time with the wrong Person. Volunteer with Her. Take a Course at Her School. It won't always be like this. But I am very concerned that You asked Your question the way You did. If Your crazy about Her, why would You feel trapped? You have to ask Yourself, do You want a good relationship, or are You just wanting sex? Many a Person has lost the One who was right for Them by being impatient. Looks like You have some thinking to do. Best of Luck with that....
2006-09-19 00:33:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u love her.
she obviously cares about u.
what more do u want from her?
her presence?
is it a MUST?
is it a NEED?
she has things 2 do. something which r importnt 2 her.
arent u happy 4 her?
yes. not able to meet up wit someone u love can be really frustrating. i know how it feels coz im in da exact situation. but hey! take it positively. she's not doing anything stupid rite? n i dun think she would even have da time 2 cheat on u. hahaha!! have faith dude. be proud dat she's doing good things in her life. just be patient. its very exciting when u only meet her once in a while coz u'll tend to treasure da time wit her more. u'll tend to make it memorable. make it special. jus wait. that time will come one day. n it'll be one hell of a memory. jus dun give up. have faith in the relationship like she does. she calls u 3 times a day!! dats more den wad i got!! hahaha!!
be happy.
dont think too much.
have faith.
and believe.
all the best.
:)
2006-09-19 00:37:44 · answer #3 · answered by rufiogerl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest u do the same volunteer work that she is doing so u guys can spend more time together. u should learn to be more mature and stop complaining. she's busy and yet she still calls you 3 times a day. u also should put in more effort if u wan this relationship to last.
2006-09-19 00:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by lili 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your can only be trapped by yourself, if you don't see her, do you spend time really talking on the phone, emails, something? or are in love with idea of someone like her. do you have time to volunteer with her? drop by her work and have lunch with her? do you have a class together or a chance to study together? eventually if you never see her, someone that she works with, goes to school with or volunteers with will be such a good friend and have so much in common with her, that they will end up seeing more of each other than you do. you will end up left out and hurt. get involved in her life and in yours if you really want to be with her. find a way to participate, then if she really wants to be with you, you will have more in common to build on.
2006-09-19 00:34:57 · answer #5 · answered by gelfin1028 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should try not to focus on her as much do something for your self get into a new hobby work overtime hang with the guys, That will get her attention, and she might fit you into her schedule more often, if she doesn't mind that your never around she might want out of the relationship, best of luck :)
2006-09-19 00:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by kebbler80011 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i can understand 2 jobs, maybe she needs the money, and school also.
but then comes the part about volunteering? she would rather give up her little bit of free time to someone else other than you? leave her and find someone that can make time for you instead of taking time away from you
2006-09-19 00:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her then enjoy the phone calls and make the best of the time that you spend together rather than arguing over more time.
2006-09-19 00:29:20 · answer #8 · answered by freedom4ni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two should spend some time together. Go places together. Help each other out each day. Life is allot easier to live with some one then to live alone.
For instance: one person do cooking and other do laundry. Try cooking and laundry by yourself. then see what I mean.
2006-09-19 00:44:44 · answer #9 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to decide is it worth the distance....my motto is "make **** hapen"....i know it's a little harse but it's true. people can make ANYTHING work...it's all about if you feel that its worth it. You can make stuff work if it is important to you...that is probably y she calls so much. distance is a minor problem especially when you have a good girl on your side. it's not many good women out here anymore (i should kno, i'm a WOMAN....one of the few good women left) if it is worth it then work with it!!!!!!!!
2006-09-19 00:31:56 · answer #10 · answered by mholt_86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋