ok so i have not talked to my ex in about 3 weeks and the lasttime we talked she blocked me on aim and told me to leave her be. but today i get home from work and i have am facebook messge from her sayin Hey William...I'm just saying hi. I hope everything is ok...can you believe I got facebook. now im not sure if i sould write back or not b/c i really want to be with her but all the other times she had talked to me it like makes me think that she still care but then she will tell me to not to talk to her anymore i dont get it. what sould i do
2006-09-18 17:15:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls like to do things on their own terms. They'll call when they're lonely, not when they want to see you. They'll write messages on your Facebook when they get new Facebooks so you can write back on their walls and they can look popular. In all honesty, I think you should definitely ignore her. Sounds like she wants to start some drama, and you don't need that, because only girls like drama.
2006-09-18 17:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by Dumblydore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man.Goodness! Just tell her straight up..that you do not know how to read her because her words and actions contradict one another. I think she is playing games. As a matter of fact, once you tell her that first thing, then tell her on facebook or other email not to send you any more messages unless she wants to be your girlfriend or your friend. Tell her you do not have time to be playing games esp. when you work and go to school, you do not need people in your life who act brand new. Then, find some other girls to talk to--should be plenty on facebook anyways.
2006-09-19 00:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by Christa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that she blocked u is a negative. Do not contact her unless she calls or u cross paths in person.
Girls are trained from birth to be nice, like sugar & spice, so I think that the "Hey..." message is her way of being nice. She doesnt want to be viewed as the b!*ch. She's not seeking anything more (or she wouldve said that directly). On the bright side, she possibly geniunely cares that u are ok. Just lay low until she has a re-connect vibe message like "Hey I miss you..." or "Why havent u called me..."
2006-09-19 00:24:25 · answer #3 · answered by mccreafx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Facebook is like the lowest form of a relationship. I am friends on facebook with people I occasionally talked to in junior high. If she really cares she will call you or at least e-mail you personally, until then I would hold off.
2006-09-19 00:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by ashleynicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know the whole situation, but from what I have just read, she is messing with your head. Either that or she just wants to be friends. Definitely don't respond now. Give it a few days and see if she writes anything else; however, if she is giving you that many mixed messages, it might be best to move on. There are plenty of good girls out there.
2006-09-19 00:22:32 · answer #5 · answered by Johnny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok my advise as a woman should be ...answer it , if she is asking you how are you , tell her ....ok and do not say anymore sometimes people likes to play with feelings and you have to let her know that she can not do that anymore....I know it hurts but if you want her for good do not let her to abuse you that way
2006-09-19 00:23:09 · answer #6 · answered by Yami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her a one line sentence like "Hello, I'm happy for you" and the likes. See how she reacts. Take it from there.
2006-09-19 00:18:36 · answer #7 · answered by Rebecca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST WRITE BACK AND AND SAY HI. HOW ARE YOU DOING AND GO FROM THERE. SHE MAY WANT TO GET\BACK WITH YOU. OR SHE JUST WANT TO KEEP IN'
TOUCH.
2006-09-19 00:34:55 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a few days ..... then respond or blow her off completely your choice ...
2006-09-19 00:18:04 · answer #9 · answered by aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
f her. she was being immature
2006-09-19 00:18:45 · answer #10 · answered by gesswh0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋