know and have been telling him that I don't want it to affect our sex life. He loves me I am sure of that in the sense that he is there for me. He says he loves our sex life, but I know his account is under BDSM.. which is not my cup-o-tea..it is probably very mild because he is a soft person but he likes very raunchy music (if that has anything to do with it )He says he does'nt need all that but he still uses it. We live long distance and I am moving in next month. We see eachother every week-end but he travels alot for his work. I wonder if it is because he is bored, lonely and misses me. Wishful thinking. I sure would like him to open up to me but he is like an oyster in regards to sex "elsewhere". I feel hurt and I am afraid that he will always hide that from me, which will stress me.
Would you have any suggestions as to how to accept it or how to make him open up to me. Also, would you call it cheating ? He has asked me to marry me.
Thank you ;)
2006-09-16
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