2006-09-16 17:06:48 · 23 answers · asked by MissChatea 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im married and have been for 6 years now and it is nice once in awhile when im not the one trying to initiate the sex. how would you feel if the person you loved never made any sexual advances towards you. it's really a turn on and it's also comforting to know that my wife is still sexually attracted to me just as much as i am attracted to her.
2006-09-16 17:11:12 · answer #1 · answered by locowherto 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes! Men get tired of having to make the first move all the time, it gets really old. Sometimes we feel like we are begging or that you don't desire us. A .330 lifetime batting average might get you in the baseball Hall of Fame, but it can be incredibly frustrating to a husband.
It the simplest form, Dr. Laura's marital advice to women can be boiled down to: take the initiative more often!
2006-09-17 10:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Carl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men AND women both like it when the other initiates sex. It tells us that our partner is turned on by us and it builds our self esteem. Everyone wants to feel sexy. So yeah, guys love it when a girl makes the first move. My husband tells me this is the biggest turn on for him.
2006-09-17 00:09:39 · answer #3 · answered by oneradnursey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the guy. Sometimes a guy like for a woman to be a little aggressive. It don't hurt to wear something sexy too.
2006-09-17 00:10:26 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_sensitivelady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of Course
2006-09-17 00:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by mstazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if we're already in a relationship. Otherwise I prefer for women to just sit, send subtle signals, and wait for me to make the first move. There's no challenge in it otherwise.
2006-09-17 00:08:47 · answer #6 · answered by I Know Nuttin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience, I think a lot of guys really like when the girl initiates the sex because its good for them to see that you want to do it too.
2006-09-17 00:09:26 · answer #7 · answered by cute_mami_alwayz23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love a woman that has and shows confidence and just not sexually either. The whole package!!!!
2006-09-17 04:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I LOVE IT WHEN IT HAPPENS AS MOST OF THE TIME THE GUY MAKES THE FIRST MOVE
2006-09-17 00:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by kingkong9274 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a woman who takes initiative, as long as the lust is mutual.
2006-09-17 00:08:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋