why would anyone hate them if they DIDN'T choose to be this way????
2006-09-16 17:08:55 · 26 answers · asked by juan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think they are people, just like anyone else. No one chooses who they fall in love with, whether they're gay or straight. What they do in their bedroom is their own business!
2006-09-16 17:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by Avie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't hate them whether they chose that lifestyle or not. I think it is something they don't have a choice in, although I know some people who claim they are gay just because it actually seems to be the 'in' thing now.
But all that aside, why would I care if someone has sex with males or females or goats or sheep for that matter! As long as bith sides are willing, which probably rules out the sheep and goats, lol!
But I have no problem with gay people at all. That's their private business.
2006-09-17 00:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by lillith6662000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a problem with them. I just have a small problem with lesbians, if they start hitting on me. It gets awkward because I'm straight and don't want that kind of attention from the same sex. Some people just aren't as tolerant as others when it comes to being different than themselves, and their standards of a good person. Some people associate sexual orientation as something important if they don't know them and whether it makes them good or not. Religion also comes into play here too.
2006-09-17 00:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't hate them even if they did choose. people are just full of hate and I tend to ignore folks like that. I used to try to argue back but they have an anti-reason wall built up and the argument just bounces right off.
I prefer to judge people by how they treat me and I've been mistreated by more conservative people than anyone else.
2006-09-17 00:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by sarah_lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
many times it appers to be a simple matter of individuals being closed minded or just trying to force their beliefs of gay/lez & if gay/lez doesn't adapt they are treated negatively.
2006-09-17 00:15:43 · answer #5 · answered by pbuilder_novis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could care less about who a person wakes up with in the morning, the true value of a person is how they treat others. Winners and losers come from all circles of life, sexual orientation shouldn't be a broad gauge to make that kind of judgment on.
2006-09-17 00:11:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont hate gay or lesbian people well they choose who they like and want to be i dont think its right that some gay and lesbian people go to far and trying to be something there not by going threw all kinds of surgery and sex changes i think its a waste of time and is not good if you like wich ever gender you want to its ok but just dont take it so far with the surgery and things its creepy.
2006-09-17 00:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by demetri c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gay lez peopoloe are kinda of weird even if the aren't lesbian or gay they just happen to be weird in other ways
like how they act or who they hang out with
2006-09-17 00:11:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have lesbian friends and male gay acquaintances. I find that I like some people, and I don't really think about their gayness so much. It's only one aspect of who they are. People hate what they fear.
2006-09-17 00:13:14 · answer #9 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people should live, and let others live. If someone is gay or lesbian, that is their business.
I wouldn't hate someone or be disgusted by them because they're homosexual. That would be ridiculous on my part.
2006-09-17 00:13:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋