my boyfriends too nervous around me...he told my freind hes afraid hes gonna say sumtin stupid...wat shud i talk about wen im with him?? how can i get him to not b nervous? p.s. im 13
2006-09-16 16:58:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He just needs reassurance from you.
2006-09-16 17:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 12 and my freind's boyfreind is the same way! The way I loosened up around my boyfreind is by talking to him on the phone. But just talking to him like a freind. Good Luck!!
2006-09-17 00:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by cada-dia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus always keep the covo goin. Don't give him time to think about being nervous or anythin. let him know that you'll like/love him kno matter if he says somethin stupid or not cuz we all do it. and that it'll hurt your relationship more to not say anythin at all, than it would if he was to say somethin stupid. cuz after all, we all need a good life every now and then
2006-09-17 00:11:21 · answer #3 · answered by ivegotquestions_uvegotanswers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to be your self and try to get him to be himself around you. just talk about anything and he shouldn't be worried about sayin anything stupid cuz sometimes stupid things are so cute when they say them. just don't worry about it that much he'll get over those nervous in a couple of days while he gets use to being himself around you!
2006-09-17 00:02:49 · answer #4 · answered by GigglesGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay here what you should do: be with him lesser and he needs
it because boyfriend tends to get nervious and shakey a bit
so calm him down have an nice talk
2006-09-17 00:05:20 · answer #5 · answered by toddk57@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should feel comfortable and be yourself around someone you should never have to worry about saying the RIGHT thing. he is your boyfriend he shouldn't be nervous. you should just be yourself...that should be good enough.
2006-09-17 00:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by girliegirl26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just spend more time with him and the nervousness will pass. Thats the easy and subtle way.
2006-09-17 00:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by RichUnclePennybags 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe telling him his being nervous is cute, but it is making you nervous
2006-09-17 00:01:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep being nice to him & smile a lot & never criticize him-
then it just takes time for him to get comfortable
2006-09-17 00:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been dating him? well, you should always try talk to him face-to-face no matter what, once he get used to it, he won't be nervous anymore..
2006-09-17 00:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by polaris_innocent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋