He's really nice to me even though most people at my school don't like him. But even worse my boyfreind hates his guts! The problem is is that the freind goes to my church and calls me on my cell all the time and is ALWAYS talking to me. What should I do?
2006-09-16 17:00:46 · 12 answers · asked by cada-dia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ya, its not a good idea to keep contact with this guy if you care about your man. Most of the time a "friend" of the opposite sex usually has alterior motives. But even if not, you have to mentally put yourself in a position where if he had a friend that was a girl that you didnt like, would you care if he kept hanging out with her???
2006-09-16 17:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by plainofexistance 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you love your man, you would let this friend go. Honestly girlfriend, I could see the problem. Put yourself in his shoes. What if this was a female calling him on his cell all the time. What if she was always around him? Now you know you would be snapping. You probably already thought of a few choice words in your head. You know what you gotta do. Tell this guy that he is disrespecting your man, you, and your relationship. If you don't want problems, you would do this quickly. Stop playing girl!!! You act like you don't know this guy is trying to be more than your friend. I know you can see the signs. Well, your man is waving a stop sign. You better pay attention before he gives up!!!
2006-09-17 00:10:36 · answer #2 · answered by Ms.shauncy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have a right to choose your friends. Tell this guy who calls you all of the time that he needs to back off on the daily calling thing. Set your personal boundaries. Tell him that you would like to hear from him a couple of times a week but more than that, you are just too busy with school and other people in your life. You can be nice and be firm. As far as other people not liking him........that is not your problem, sweetie.
2006-09-17 00:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you are too young to be committed to any b/f, not even to this guy you meet in the church.
Enjoy your youth without any commitments because your views and values will change as you grow older and mature. Once you mature, your views of your b/f may likely change and your relationship will be affected.
So tell your b/f you are not ready to be committed at the moment. Then you are free to have many other friends of your choice and not of other people's, especially your b/f's, choice.
Commit only when you do not have any doubts of the person of your choice.
2006-09-17 00:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if so many people don like him wat did u see in him so as to like him?anyway i think you should best escape problems with ur boyfriend by keeping away from this guy and tell him not to contact u alot.maybe he takes u as more than a friend at the way he talks to u and calls u alot
2006-09-17 00:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by Tuma 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think all boyfriend's are jelious of male friend's and that is how most people fuction,I have male friend's and my boyfriend does'nt really mind except this one friend he make's comment's about him sometime's but deep down he know's me and he trust meso it is'nt a problem but if your boyfriend love's you then he should respect you and trust you. That is what make's or break's a realiationship.
2006-09-17 00:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by christine t 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You do nothing, you be friends with you friend and be gf to your bf. You are not, however, your bf and having a bf doesn't mean you speak only to people he approves of or you have friends only if its ok with him. Don't even start playing those stupid games.
2006-09-17 00:04:47 · answer #7 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
theres nothing wrong with talkin to this friend of yours, just try explaining to him not to call you all the time because you have a boyfriend that doesn't like that. just cuz your boyfriend hates him doesn't mean you cant be friends, don't you dislike one of your boyfriend's friend?? he just needs to understand that theres gonna be friends of yours that he isn't going to like that much for whatever reason he may have.
2006-09-17 00:07:40 · answer #8 · answered by GigglesGirl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if u love your boyfriend, u will neevr tolk to this friend of youra ever again!
its almost like u wanna make your bf jealous.
whats wrong with u girl?
2006-09-17 00:03:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that "friend" of yours really wants to be romatically involved with You and your Boyfriend knows it so He trustes You, Not Him.
2006-09-17 00:03:53 · answer #10 · answered by Latino_Lifestyle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋