I just broke up with boyfriend and i think im turning gay now i just stare at girls boobs and butt
2006-09-16 17:07:53 · 21 answers · asked by chaparrita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't believe you can "turn gay". If you were born gay, you will figure that out soon enough. Some teens and young adults are confused on their orientation and they experiment both ways. Some people are actually "bi" and should chose. If you are confused, you can see a counselor and get help to sort out your feelings. Don't be afraid to get some counseling. You probably are not gay, but you need to find out who you are and be comfortable with that.
2006-09-16 17:12:04 · answer #1 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think Sally (above) is offering good insight. Nobody turns gay overnight; it developes with time. Did you have lesbian thoughts before breaking up? If not, I think you're just preoccupied looking for answers in all the wrong places. Sometimes women stare at other women just comparing themselves like combatants sizing up the competition. Nothing odd about that. Guys do it too. Everyone has homosexual thoughts but that doesn't make you homosexual. Try not to get stirred up over the boobs and butt stuff right now. Relax and you'll probably get interested in another guy. If it goes the other way and you're uncomfortable with it, there are counselors out there to support you.
2006-09-16 17:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by Apex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All women check each other out it is a comparison thing >> which means that you are neutral>>> As I take your question , I am just wondering if u would just like to explore >>> absolutely nothing wrong with that , you are young I think >>> but never ever think if you like men that you can't look at women Hello your guy is so there >> if u want to experiment with what way u want to be >>> approach with caution , make sure your school buds don't know, if things don"t work out then u have lost nothing just keep this to yourself girl .
2006-09-16 17:18:54 · answer #3 · answered by yvette b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have that same problem....all except I have never dated a man! But I find myself staring at girls butts and boobs all the time! Hey, maybe we can do it together sometime! The mall say 1:00?
2006-09-16 17:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by sixfoot8bkr 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
1) Grow a Mullet.
2) Buy lots of Mellissa Etheridge CDs.
3) Buy a Camaro.
4) Put on some Doc Martins and go out cruising for Tail.
2006-09-16 17:10:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may be a lesbian.. I'm straight and married but if there's anything I've learned from life it's don't suppress your natural urges. It will lead to anger and depression. Be yourself no matter what anyone thinks.
2006-09-16 17:10:58 · answer #6 · answered by New Jersey Steve 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? Why, go find someone you like of the same gender, of course! There's nothing wrong with being homosexual, if that's what you're wondering.
2006-09-16 17:10:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go flirt with a girl and see if you like it. Nothing wrong with being gay anyways.
2006-09-16 17:10:08 · answer #8 · answered by RichUnclePennybags 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way you will truly find out is to try to have a lesbian relationship with another........If it turns you off, then you are not gay........
2006-09-16 17:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think you're gay.... then you probably are.... if you're gay enough to ask this question on yahoo answers... you definitely are.
2006-09-16 17:20:19 · answer #10 · answered by Kyle V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋