Family & Relationships - 15 September 2006

I am far from a racist, I have more black friends than white, I am very proud but would not forward this email... was wondering how many would?

Someone else besides me finally said it. How many are actually paying
attention to this?


There are African Americans, Mexican Americans, Asian Americans, Arab
Americans, Native Americans, ect. and then there are just Americans.

You pass me on the street and sneer in my direction. You call me
"Whiteboy," "Cracker," "Honkey," "Whitey," "Caveman" and that's OK.


But when I call you, ******, Kike, Towelhead, Sand-******, Camel
Jockey, Beaner, ****, or Chink you call me a racist.


You say that whites commit a lot of violence against you, so why are
the ghettos the most dangerous places to live?


You have the United ***** College Fund. & gt;> You have Martin Luther
King Day. You have Black History Month. You have Cesar Chavez Day. You
have Yom Hashoah You have Ma'uled Al-Nabi You have the NAACP. You have
BET.


If we had WET(White Entertainment Television) we'd be racists. If we
had a White Pride Day you would call us racists. If we had White History
Month, we'd be racists. If we had any organization for only whites to
"advance" our lives, we'd be racists.


We have a Hispanic Chamber of Commerce, a Black Chamber of Commerce,
and then we just have the plain Chamber of Commerce. Wonder who pays for
that?


If we had a college fund that only gave white students scholarships,
you know we'd be racists. There are over 60 openly proclaimed Black
Colleges in the US, ye t if there were "White colleges" that would be a
racist college.


In the Million Man March, you believed that you were marching for your
race and rights. If we marched for our race and rights, you would call
us racists.


You are proud to be black, brown, yellow and orange, and you're not
afraid to announce it. But when we announce our white pride, you call us
racists.


You rob us, carjack us, and shoot at us. But, when a white police
officer shoots a black gang member or beats up a black drug-dealer running
from the law and posing a threat to society, you call him a racist.


I am proud. But, you call me a racist.


Why is it that only whites can be racists?


There is nothing improper about this email.


Let's see which of you are proud enough to forward it.

2006-09-15 03:48:25 · 18 answers · asked by Kimmy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know personal ones are nice but can be lengthy (especially if you don't want to know ahead of time what the other person wrote)

I know traditional is easier (but can be somewhat of a snooze fest because we have ALL heard them before!)

2006-09-15 03:48:25 · 12 answers · asked by ~2Sxy4u!~ 4 in Weddings

2006-09-15 03:46:18 · 13 answers · asked by zedh 1 in Friends

he has a girlfriend but he dont know whats up with me but i know what he is doing to this other young lady he is suppose to be his girlfriend and every thing im wanting to know why does he stare at me and why was he reaally calling me he asked for my birthday the he called back saying stupid things like he had someone listening i really want to know why he acts like this and i have moved on but its this ni$$a that keeps me from thinking foward all my friends say he wants me back i want to know how do i tell he wants me back please help me here

2006-09-15 03:46:07 · 11 answers · asked by murdamisz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

And how can you let him feel that you care a lot, though distance hinders? How can I make him happy? What boys usually wanna hear from her girl?

2006-09-15 03:44:52 · 22 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 03:44:23 · 21 answers · asked by JUSTIN 1 in Singles & Dating

i thought about reciting this to her right after desert.


















Roses are Red

Violets are Blue

I like pizza

Lets F uk

2006-09-15 03:44:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 03:44:01 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 03:43:47 · 19 answers · asked by herbertdedrean 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years and planned to get married. However, he bought a cheap house (while I was studying for the bar) in a school district that is horrible and cannot understand why I do not want to move my kids there. I live in one of the best school districts where kids go to Harvard and Yale unlike his school district where only 89% go on to secondary education. I am not rich and grew up poor which is why I know how important it is for kids to go to a good school so they have an upper hand in college and life. I went to a school that was similar to the district he lives in and struggled to catch up with everyone else in college. Also, his house is in a subdivision that is newer but the houses are not increasing in value which means he made a bad financial decision (although he will not admit this). I do not know what to do because I love him and want to marry him. Any advice?

2006-09-15 03:43:31 · 8 answers · asked by lady_reed_03 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Question: Why are women considered freaks and men considered studs?

Answer: Because women teach men how to be studs with their freaky ways....

2006-09-15 03:42:37 · 6 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm 27, he's 31.
We are different in nationality, living 1hr away in different town.
He calls me most everyday, been to a short trip for several times, and asking me to visit his parent's with him this month... this is when I partly thought he might be thinking me very seriously.
How can you tell when he's thinking you very seriously?

2006-09-15 03:42:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was on computer and a friend said good night droopy draws ...lol

2006-09-15 03:42:27 · 4 answers · asked by sharon c 3 in Friends

Just curious!

2006-09-15 03:42:06 · 15 answers · asked by Mr. Naughtiness 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My girlfriend says men prefer what ever they can get is this true?

2006-09-15 03:41:34 · 21 answers · asked by prizelady88 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I can't decide what book to buy as a gift and it will have to be posted too. Just wondered if vouchers are bit 'old fashioned'!!!

2006-09-15 03:40:51 · 22 answers · asked by Doris 3 in Friends

2006-09-15 03:40:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-15 03:40:17 · 7 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Iv been feeling down for ages now for a number of reasons,been trying to figure out whats been rong with me and why am just ssooo upset with life.. I used to feel depressed out of work but now am at the point were even in work am feeling down and unhappy. Am thinking maybe a huge part of my problem is am lonely.. I have a few close friends but they are always busy with there boyfriends or girlfriends.. Iv got nobody!! When ever we go 2 a pub or club there in couples and am always the odd one out.. As much as i tell them it doesnt bother me, it really does.. Theres absolutley nothin i can do about it either and i think its makin me very depressed!! plz help.......

2006-09-15 03:39:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-15 03:39:07 · 12 answers · asked by arbutusgrl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 03:38:01 · 9 answers · asked by daddyoohh2 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well ive been with my boyfriend for a good while now and ive never felt this way about ne1 before. I really love him and ive changed alot for the better.Well it doesnt bother me that much that i know he looks at other girls, but it really does hurt me when he checks out my bestfriends.I see it as disrespectful and ive never dont that to him with his friends.I see his friends as just people and whats really inside.I dont care about looks, because they can only take you so far.He see's this as theres nothing wrong with it, but i feel so hurt and disappointed in him, because i thought he was better than that and i expected he had alil more respect for me.I dont mind that he doesnt think their ugly, but checking them out just hurts. Am i wrong about feelings this waY?

2006-09-15 03:37:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I live with his family and we have his relatives coming to visit every other weekend. Whenever this happens any plans we have immediately go out of the window to accomodate his relatives. This has been going on for a while now and it is really bothering me. I dont want to come across as jealous and possessive though but i need to explain to him that this is really irratating me.

2006-09-15 03:37:16 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am 27 and my bfr. is 46, he also has three children from his previous marriage.
I lived with him for over a year, and this cohabiting situation is bothering me.
I don't want to marry him, I don't think he is right for me. However, the fact that he is not offering to commit is bothering me.
I would never push him into that, cuz it wouldn't worth nothing. He has to come to it by himself.
Anyway I just want to know his reasons but I can't ask him directly.
Any suggestions on my situation???

Additional Details

6 minutes ago
I've am divorced, have 6 yr.old, and my bfr. takes good care of me and my child.
I am attending school right now, and don't want to break up yet.
I find the comment about father figure interesting, cuz my dad was basicly ignoring me, though my mother was overprotective. And that's true that I am more drown to responsible, level-headed older man , the total opposite of my ex husband.

2006-09-15 03:36:50 · 9 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well ive been with my boyfriend for a good while now and ive never felt this way about ne1 before. I really love him and ive changed alot for the better.Well it doesnt bother me that much that i know he looks at other girls, but it really does hurt me when he checks out my bestfriends.I see it as disrespectful and ive never dont that to him with his friends.I see his friends as just people and



whats really inside.I dont care about looks, because they can only take you so far.


He see's this as theres nothing wrong with it, but i feel so hurt and disappointed in him, because i thought he was better than that and i expected he had alil more respect for me.I dont mind that he doesnt think their ugly, but checking them out just hurts. Am i wrong about feelings this waY?

2006-09-15 03:36:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been seeing a guy for about six months, and last night , I told him that I was falling in love with him. I thought he would have the same feelings, but he didn't say anything except that he's glad that I told him. What does that mean. It's not like I jumped the gun, it's been six months....

2006-09-15 03:36:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hav 3 girls now one wants me for my good looks one wants me for my $$$$$ and the thurd one wants me as a sex toy. Which one should I keep ??

2006-09-15 03:35:37 · 3 answers · asked by shoots_bambi 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 27 and my bfr. is 46, he also has three children from his previous marriage.
I lived with him for over a year, and this cohabiting situation is bothering me.
I don't want to marry him, I don't think he is right for me. However, the fact that he is not offering to commit is bothering me.
I would never push him into that, cuz it wouldn't worth nothing. He has to come to it by himself.
Anyway I just want to know his reasons but I can't ask him directly.
Any suggestions on my situation???

Additional Details

6 minutes ago
I've am divorced, have 6 yr.old, and my bfr. takes good care of me and my child.
I am attending school right now, and don't want to break up yet.
I find the comment about father figure interesting, cuz my dad was basicly ignoring me, though my mother was overprotective. And that's true that I am more drown to responsible, level-headed older man , the total opposite of my ex husband.

2006-09-15 03:35:31 · 5 answers · asked by Mistyfog 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-15 03:35:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-15 03:35:18 · 13 answers · asked by Caribbean Queen 1 in Singles & Dating