2006-09-15 03:43:47 · 19 answers · asked by herbertdedrean 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break up...hello!
2006-09-15 03:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by daddyoohh2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be cautious and keep an eye on his behavior - don't follow him around or stalk him - just a casual eye.
Talk to him if you think you have observed him cheating. There might be a logical explanation - depending on the behavior you see.
If you KNOW he is cheating, then you really don't want him. Just think - that other girl "won" a liar and a cheat and took him off your hands, thereby saving you the misery of having to deal with him. You should thank her for removing the loser from your life.
2006-09-15 10:48:50 · answer #2 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you keep feeling insecure in a relationship the next thing is you are going to destroy it .you think your guy is cheating but you don't know it so he is not until you see him or heard rumors about it . you love this guy way too much that the thought of him being with another girl kills you within a second. well i got news for you ,if you ever show a guy that you love him too much, he will take advantage of your love and cheat knowing that you will always forgive him so chill.
if he did not love you ,he wouldn't be with you now okay. please do not keep accusing him of cheating when you don't know that he is doing such a thing you will only be pushing him into another girls arms were he can be trusted and loved without accusations.
so please love your guy the very best you can and if it ain't enough for him he will let you know not the other way around . good luck sweetie.
2006-09-15 11:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by geebabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look 4 the signs. 1) Smelling like soap after work
2) Lip stick smudges that's not yours
3) Scratch marks u didn =t put there
4) Condoms in pockets ( if he didn't use to carry them be4)
5) coming home later than usual.
Things like those a tell tale signs hes getting it some where else.
Go with ur instincts they a usually right.
do some snooping. Catch him in the act then dump his ***
2006-09-15 11:01:15 · answer #4 · answered by Pat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask a question that has an obvious answer, your either thinking of vengence or trying to embarrass him so you can empower yourself.
Guess what?
Your going to lose.
How are you going to lose? In the long term, your going to continue to go out with men who are not good for you, blame them, and be so burnt out about it, that you'll fail to see that the problem was you all along and then loliness comes in.
Take charge. Confront him with it. Give him a hug and smile as you walk away. Then he'll learn how much he screwd up. Don't gloat about it. Just stand tall and think to yourself; "I know I deserve better". Besides. Your young. Your going thru the process or learning about relationships.
Good luck.
Find proof. Then walk away. Don't make a soap opera out of it. Confront him about it and move on.
2006-09-15 10:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I would throw his **** out of my house in a pile in the front lawn and I would scream and beat him up a little slam my door and tell him he has exactly 1 hour to get his **** off my lawn before I ignite it in flames and 4 seconds after he left I would go and change my door locks and bad mouth him around town a little then I would completly forget I even loved the peice of **** and move on
and if he ever tried to speak to me I would laugh in his face because we would be threw!!!!!!! FOREVER!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-15 10:52:04 · answer #6 · answered by Sandra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront him about it and listen to what he has to say. Then give him the reasoning behind why you feel hes cheating.
2006-09-15 10:46:32 · answer #7 · answered by Chris H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't have proof, ask him. but female intuition is usually dead on. if you think your man is cheating...he probably is. and if he is, break up with him. once a cheater, always a cheater.
2006-09-15 10:46:54 · answer #8 · answered by SweetnSour 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL, ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS GIVE HIM THESE DEFINITIONS, JUST START CALLING THEM OUT...
HAND- THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF THE BODY.- FOR IT IS ALMOST IMPOSSIBLE TO WHOOP ONE'S A** WITHOUT IT.
FOOT- ANOTHER IMPERITIVE BODY PART, WITH OUT IT, YOU WILL BE ENABLED TO PUT IT UP ONE'S A**.
CONCENTRATE- WELL, OBVIOUSLY THIS IS KEY FOR TRACKING ONE'S MOVEMENT AND ONE'S POSSILBLE SIDE RELATIONSHIP.
AND MOST OF ALL,
DECISION- THE THOUGHT PROCESS...
SHOULD I BUST OUT YOUR WINDOWS? OR BUST YOUR HEAD TO THE WHITE MEAT??
THAT SHOULD DO IT.
2006-09-15 10:55:19 · answer #9 · answered by *HOT*GHETTO*MESS* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Snoop get the evidence, and confront him.
2006-09-15 11:29:53 · answer #10 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slap him upside the head.
2006-09-15 10:45:28 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋