Well ive been with my boyfriend for a good while now and ive never felt this way about ne1 before. I really love him and ive changed alot for the better.Well it doesnt bother me that much that i know he looks at other girls, but it really does hurt me when he checks out my bestfriends.I see it as disrespectful and ive never dont that to him with his friends.I see his friends as just people and
whats really inside.I dont care about looks, because they can only take you so far.
He see's this as theres nothing wrong with it, but i feel so hurt and disappointed in him, because i thought he was better than that and i expected he had alil more respect for me.I dont mind that he doesnt think their ugly, but checking them out just hurts. Am i wrong about feelings this waY?
2006-09-15 03:36:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Nope, you should feel that way! I say give him a taste of his own medicine!
2006-09-15 03:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by MANDEE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have all rights to feel this way. The thing about this, is that he doesn't seem to care that your feelings get hurt.
U can try giving him a taste of his own medicine, then when he talks about it, repeat the same things he tells u when u talk to him.
If he doesn't quit, lose the guy. Trust me, u can feel the same love, or even more love about someone else, so don't think u have to stick around because he's it, and u can't do better. Everyone has a right to be feel extra special all the time by the person who says they love them.
2006-09-15 03:46:33 · answer #2 · answered by Crista B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously too young and immature to be in a committed relationship. Your feelings get hurt because he is looking? Well, he's always going to look, and if he is looking that hard, he's too young and immature also. If living together is just a good way to have sex whenever wanted, it's hardly a committed relationship.
2006-09-15 03:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by Chloe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. I agree with you he should have a little more respect for you and not be lookin at your friends. Girls u dont kno isnt really better but its better then ur good friends. Tell hi to stop cuz its disrespectful
2006-09-15 03:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The thing you should worry most about is his lack of respect for you. If you told him how you feel and he discounts that you need to move on. Find someone who has the same values as you, someone who will respect you and your feelings.
2006-09-15 03:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by uthockey32 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just my own opinion here... I think it's perfectly natural for a man to look at women! Regardless of whether they are your friends or not! As long as he's with you, and being honest, and not messing around with any of them. What harm is there in simply looking? Is it better that he looks at strangers? What if he were to look at men that way? Just a hypothetical question really. He's like every other man out there. If there's an attractive woman, it's our nature to look! Not ogle them, not let our tongues hang out of our mouth - nothing obscene, but we're human.
2006-09-15 03:42:26 · answer #6 · answered by loving father 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hy gay prtners davie and steevie hons, nothing wrong with checking out others, just dont go getting jealous hons it kills a good thing, after 5 years in our relationshipp, we are solidd gay relationshipp, we are male modeeels, and gay porno stars, and nude waiters gay mens bar, and even when we do our fi,lms they the other actors mean nothing too us we always end up together againn, and checking out other hey we even look at other cute hunks! part of life!
2006-09-15 03:50:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is seriously checking out other girl including your best friends he is not that in to you. Take him out with the garbage and move on!! :)
2006-09-15 03:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by Mommy of 2 Boys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been happily married for 2 years, and I can honestly say that my eyes do not stray. That is a rude thing to do to your spouse.
2006-09-15 03:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you're not wrong about feeling this way. I think you should talk to him about it, how it hurts you to check them out.
2006-09-15 03:40:03 · answer #10 · answered by superboredom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋