I've been seeing a guy for about six months, and last night , I told him that I was falling in love with him. I thought he would have the same feelings, but he didn't say anything except that he's glad that I told him. What does that mean. It's not like I jumped the gun, it's been six months....
2006-09-15 03:36:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I was your boyfriend, I would definitely tell you "I love you too". I do not think he loves you nor like you. Sorry, Get a new boyfriend
2006-09-15 03:38:10 · answer #1 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont listen to that... Just because he didnt say I love you back does not mean he does not care for you.
For one, its only been six months and sometimes it takes people longer than that to fall in love. Second, if he says I love you back, dont you want him to mean it?
Maybe he has been in past relationships where he was hurt and he wants to make sure its for real before he says anything. Or sometimes it hard for people to say those words.
And its good that you told him, cause now he knows how you feel. It also gives you an opportunity to talk to him about it. If you want to know how he feels, you can just simply talk to him. Ask him if he is taking the relationship as serious as you are, and where he would like this relationship to go. If he treats you good, and shows you that he cares for you. Do not rush him. I am sure he will tell you I LOVE YOU, when he is ready.
2006-09-15 03:42:46 · answer #2 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he wasn't prepared and you kinda caught him off guard.
But not to worry, it doesn't mean he doesn't feel the same way. Guys find it harder to say such 'mushy' stuff so that could have been what he was thinking.
In any case, don't declare your love again in words anytime soon. Just enjoy being together and things will fall into place. And remember, it's only words. Take more time to look at his actions because they do speak louder :)
2006-09-15 03:52:45 · answer #3 · answered by Beth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew a guy for 4 months before we started dating and after two months of exclusiveness i said the L word and he never responded back but.. started to act as if he could clown me,so when we got close to the end then he wanted to say how much he cared but it was simple to late....so for your case wait it out see what happens...respect that he won't say he loves you just because you said it...let him do it on his own terms..
2006-09-15 03:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by Gemini 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but ..He ain't that into you.
I know that you would never have said that if he was not gonnna reply.
Ask him If he is at all intrested in you and why waste his time on you if he doesn't want to love you back?
Just tell him that your sorry about before and i said the wrong words to the wrong guy...it's just i was thinking about someone else that i couldn't get my mind of.
If he comes back and say he love you he just trying to mess with you and get laid...if he does tell him you have no intrested.
Smile you don't need a bastured**.
2006-09-15 03:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by *~`h!8@Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him to say it first.. . Try watching a romantic movie or a place were you both feel pretty close an talk about relationships and what you guys a re looking for. That way maybe he will say it and the you say it and then you make out!
2016-03-27 02:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just took the relationship to another level. After some women tell a man that they start talking about moving in together and getting married. (Give the man credit at least he didn't freak out)
2006-09-15 03:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen, you only said that you are "falling in" love.
That's a HUGE difference from "I love you" for me.
Just act cool, he will have a time when he'll say that he'll love you. Bur for guys, that's a huge commitment in a certain age.
2006-09-15 03:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes some people longer to say the "L" word than others. Be patient, and it will come, if it is meant to be. Just be thankful for what you have.
2006-09-15 03:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by eric l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess, he is either not really sure about his feeling for you or he still has being true to you. Give him sometime to think about it and ask him again. Have a open heart to heart talk with him.
Good Luck ;)
2006-09-17 00:57:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋