Family & Relationships - 12 September 2006

when will women finally understand that for a man, sex can be a purely physical act with no love or emotion? we do it because it feels good..that's it! why is that concept so hard for them to grasp?

2006-09-12 11:44:48 · 6 answers · asked by Mystery Guest 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 11:44:41 · 3 answers · asked by caligirl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when you talk to somebody for about 3 minutes each day and today i talked to this person for aobut 6 minutes she went on and on kind of brushed her hand passed her ears and kinda wouldnt look at me but kept talking about her fish that she got and her weekened once i finally asked her to get conversation going. Anyways she hardly could look at me but i maybe got 5 words in i listened as i took the advice of the yahoo answers people. My question is did me flirting with her um did it work i mean um well does it sound like she was flirting with me?

2006-09-12 11:43:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 11:41:38 · 19 answers · asked by J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He asks me question over and over. The same ones! He told he that if my underwear matched my shirt I what a whore. He is really out of control but when I mention getting help he gets really mad. His mother said the meds he use to on work really good but he went to a lock down school and all the kids said they didn't have to take the pills so he didn't.

2006-09-12 11:40:58 · 2 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wondering, I'm also bored and starting to ask annoying questions since there is noone on IM to chat to.

2006-09-12 11:40:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I told him I'll do him only if he does me. But I think its like forcing him to do me. So I still please him. Should I continue.. Guys: is it really that bad...I've never been down on a girl so I can't say.

2006-09-12 11:40:43 · 10 answers · asked by billy82jean 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been married 7 years. Since we have a little boy , our relationship seemed going down hill. 4 Months ago, I found a girl's driver license and her photo in his wallet. More than that I found her emails that were very naughty , like" wish you in the bathroom with me, taking shower and helping me with..." I also found out that my husband called that girl every hour , every day. I confronted him and he told me that just purely friendship!!! I tried really hard to accept his explanations but I couldn't because he still locks his cellphone. He hides his car key and wallet as soon he gets home. These make him very suspicious that he is still doing stuff behind my back.
I truly love him and want to work things out, but he seems not working hard enough on our relationship.
What should I do now? I'm thinking hired private detective
Please give me some feedback .
Thanks

2006-09-12 11:40:28 · 15 answers · asked by anh n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do they do this even when they have women who love & care for them out there??.. and when they know they mean the world to somebody they still can't turn down the meaningless whores....seriously how can they break a girl's heart just for cheap sex??

2006-09-12 11:39:36 · 28 answers · asked by babygirla718 4 in Singles & Dating

i have been getting to know a women now for a while and i really like her,only tonite i found out she is 38,i am only 28 ,i am abit worried about it now,does age matter?

2006-09-12 11:39:28 · 25 answers · asked by MARK W 1 in Singles & Dating

what problems would you say you have in your community

2006-09-12 11:39:07 · 24 answers · asked by peaches 2 in Family

I was in the orient and they use water and toilet paper to clean themselves. Isn't stupid that we just wipe and sort of attach everything to the surrounding area of the anus? Wouldn't wet or moist towelets be better? For that matter, don't you feel the classic smell of s*** when you are being intimate?

2006-09-12 11:38:53 · 6 answers · asked by yo y 1 in Friends

There's this girl in my class that I like, and I want to know her better so I can ask her out someday, I've been nice to her and we have chated sometimes, but I think I'm just a bit shy to keep a conversations going. She's also always sorrounded by a massive pack of girls, and I'm not that good-looking either. What can I do?

2006-09-12 11:38:38 · 19 answers · asked by ESKORBUTIN 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 11:38:19 · 21 answers · asked by histolytic 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friend just started going out with the guy i like. she new i liked him. what sould i do??

2006-09-12 11:36:28 · 18 answers · asked by Lindsey G 1 in Singles & Dating

I left my ex because he was cheating on me with a stripper . I found some pics at his house. Has anyone been threw this.
It really sucks.

2006-09-12 11:36:25 · 16 answers · asked by klaudia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been knowing my boyfriend since I was 13 (9 years) We were bf/gf then but it was not serious. The relationship got more serious when I was about 16. Well, we talked about the idea of marriage and he gave me my engagement ring on Feb 14, 2004. We were both in school then and weren't thinking about planning a wedding then. We moved in together Apr. 2006. Now he's out of school and I'm in my senior year and i'm ready to start our new life together. We've talked about this together and I asked him when, and he told me that it didnt matter. He knew that I have started making plans for July 2007. After a couple of nights of me complaining to him for staying out with friends to 5, 6, 9am, all of a sudden he says that he isnt ready. the funny thing about this is he told me thru AOL IM! He says that we're not ready because we're too young (21 &23) we need to enjoy life, marriage is a big step and we're not prepared. Is there something that we need to prepare for before we get married?

2006-09-12 11:36:01 · 10 answers · asked by Sparkle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

you found someone you thought could be better?

2006-09-12 11:35:35 · 28 answers · asked by *JC* 3 in Singles & Dating

I need help! My best friends are all doing drugs, and they say if I don't do them I will not be their friend anymore! They have always been so cool until they started doing drugs! I don't know what to do, because the only other friends I have are all "We don't want to be friends with you, you do drugs" on me! Just because I hang out with druggies means I do them too to everyone in our grade! What do I do?

2006-09-12 11:35:32 · 13 answers · asked by Yuggy 2 in Friends

I'm a decent looking guy but am having a tough time with dating because of what I assume to be a reaction to my open-style of communication.

2006-09-12 11:35:11 · 11 answers · asked by hockey70 1 in Singles & Dating

I found out 3 mos ago. it was with my cousin. I still love him, but don't trust him. Today I notice that he is using his anonymous email acct. so I followed up by changing his password on his phone bill to see his call logs. Nothing we there, should I tell him that I went snooping or wait until he approach me; was I wrong; what should I do?

2006-09-12 11:35:10 · 7 answers · asked by sassy lady 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, the baby's father is in the army and we have a few issues here and there ........ should i spend time on this or move on...it's not like we can actually spend time together since he is at war right now but we do email back and forth but nothing really emotional.. nothing loving in the letters just stuff about my daughter hi and bye...what should i do??

2006-09-12 11:34:19 · 7 answers · asked by yelenia0 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

How do I help my friend who has depression and is probaly bipolar? she is on eof my best friends and dont say take her to a counselor cause she wont go so no point in saying that

2006-09-12 11:33:56 · 8 answers · asked by Zoey 4 in Friends

2006-09-12 11:33:52 · 9 answers · asked by Pretty me :) 3 in Friends

2006-09-12 11:33:12 · 4 answers · asked by twitch 2 in Weddings

is it ok 2 ask a guy out??????
cause i been waiting for him 2 ask me out 4 months,
guys r so slow sometimes!
( no offense guys , litterly)

2006-09-12 11:33:01 · 28 answers · asked by S 2 in Singles & Dating

me and this guy have some insanely intense passion and chemistry together. We could spend all night wrapped up in each other. We have an amazing time and it only gets better. Plus we both are open minded and like to be spontanious.
We spend so much time together and as soon as we see each other its hard not to be with each other. We talk almost all day and night and see each other often.

but he has a girlfriend.

he tells me he really likes me and its jut hard to end a long relationships, but when in reality he has a girlfriend.

what the fuuck do I do!?!?

2006-09-12 11:32:26 · 29 answers · asked by C-BIZZLE 2 in Singles & Dating

My mom's 50th birthday is in a couple of weeks and I have no idea what to get her! I don't want to spend over $100. Does any one have any ideas? I don't want to get her a gag gift.

2006-09-12 11:32:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am having a hard time and just went through a divorce. I went over to my friends house and her dad was visiting and her and I were drinking in the hot tub and her dad kept making us more and more drinks. I made a comment that mine were much stronger than hers. The phone rang and my friend went inside and her dad and i talked some (friendly, nothing more or so I thought) and then before I knew it he was in the hottub and was on top of me. I only remember parts of it. Now I am disgusted with myself and my friend thinks it's no big deal. She even asked me if I would still hang out with her!!! What should I do?

2006-09-12 11:32:03 · 23 answers · asked by Nikki S 1 in Friends

Without going into too much detail, a week ago I relocated with my bf to another state. We signed a 12 month lease together with a landlord that is pretty understanding, seeing as though neither of us had a job when we signed it. Anyway, he has did a total 360 on me, treating me horribly. I want to leave NOW! I have the money, and my car, even though I don't have a job yet. But I'm wondering about the lease. He won't leave and allow me to be on the lease, and he won't let me leave even though he can take care of everything by himself. It's more of a "sick I love u but I will treat you however I want" mindset for him. Anyone have any advice on what I should do.

2006-09-12 11:31:48 · 12 answers · asked by mahmah 2 in Singles & Dating