my best friend just started going out with the guy i like. she new i liked him. what sould i do??
2006-09-12 11:36:28 · 18 answers · asked by Lindsey G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over it maybe. I have never understood about things like that. I never cared about it. My friends can date my ex's and the people that I like. I think it is stupid that the majority of women out there get like that. I mean, there are always other guys, right? And you only "liked" him, not "the love of my life" kind of thing. Hell, when I was in high school, one of my Best friends slept with every single one of my boyfriends, while I was going out with them. I wasn't mad at the girl, but dumped the guy for being an @ss and doing that. I mean, what is the big deal? I have seen many questions like this one on here and reply the same way. Why is it that you really care about this for? So what, the guy chose her over you, or maybe you didn't give him a choice by not telling him how you feel. So it is probably your fault anyway. So what is the big freaking deal? I would really like to know why most women get like this, it makes no since to me at all.
2006-09-12 11:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by gin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's kinda hard to answer because I don't know you or your friend. I guess if I was your friend I would have at least sat you down and talked to you about it first, made certain that you wouldn't be hurt. A guy shouldn't come between friends in my opinion. But now you have to decide whether or not she is a real friend and if you want to put in the effort it will take to forgive her. Is her friendship worth it? If so, you make the first move. If not, then go your separate ways.
But as Shakespeare says, "friendship is constant in all other things save the office and affairs of love."
Good luck.
2006-09-12 11:44:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kansas 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should wake up to the real world, and understand that's how everything goes in life. Maybe your friend like him too...but just didn't tell you right away.....and it's ok for her to like the guy after you mention it. Who are you to keep your friend from finding a nice guy? All is fair in love and war. Next time if you like somebody.....don't wait for someone else to grab them first.
2006-09-12 11:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by FunnyForker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I hate when that happens. Well, you don't own the guy- unless you were already dating him, he is fair game. How would feel if the guy you like -had a friend who liked you -so he couldn't date you because his friend wouldn't let him. Get it?
2006-09-12 11:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by weswe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How long have you two been best friends? Very rarely is a guy worth losing your best friend over. :)
2006-09-12 11:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by GlassFaerie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, get a new best friend! Looks like she doesn't have your best interests in mind.
2006-09-12 11:41:40 · answer #6 · answered by Hello Dolly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you could rip her lungs out and leave her for a pack of wolves to devour
2006-09-12 11:39:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just leave her and let me your new doyfriend if you are not over 22
2006-09-12 11:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new bestfriend. She never cared how you felt.
2006-09-12 11:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by Mystress 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she asked him, ask her why she would do that?
If he asked her out try to forget about him. he's not worthy enough for you if he didn't ask you out first.
2006-09-12 11:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by sabine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋