ok, the baby's father is in the army and we have a few issues here and there ........ should i spend time on this or move on...it's not like we can actually spend time together since he is at war right now but we do email back and forth but nothing really emotional.. nothing loving in the letters just stuff about my daughter hi and bye...what should i do??
2006-09-12 11:34:19 · 7 answers · asked by yelenia0 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Only the 2 of you can make this discision together. I understand he's at war now. That can be very emotional by itself. How would you feel if you never knew from minute to minute if you were going to get blown up or something. Maybe he's afraid to get too attached in his letters etc because of what's going on around him all the time. Don't give up on the relationship now. He may really need you and the baby more then he's letting on. War can really mess with your mind. Hang in there for him and for the daughter the 2 of you made together before this awful war stuff. GOOD LUCK & MAY GOD BLESS THE 3 Of YOU.
2006-09-12 11:47:43 · answer #1 · answered by PROUDJEW 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you chose to become one flesh by doing whatever it was that led to that baby. So it's best to preserve the relationship - put each other first, make a permanent commitment, and choose to think about doing what needs to be done to make a good and lasting relationship.
Love is a choice, if you make the right choices, the person can really grow on you. But it's most likely to happen if you just concentrate on making the choices and letting the feelings come when they will. That way, your relationship will be based on something much more enduring than feelings.
2006-09-12 18:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by songkaila 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep it civil and don't not talk to him. He is your daughter's father. If he wants to be a part of her life that is great and you should support and want that for your daughter. Trust me not having a dad around can cause problems later on if the situation isn't handeled right.
Your daughter will grow up and wonder where her daddy is and why other kids have dad's around and her's isn't. She could think that she did something wrong and end up having psychological issues later on.
Just work something out where he is in her life as much as he can be. And make sure that yuou can get along for your daughters sake.
2006-09-12 18:41:41 · answer #3 · answered by starlet_80 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on and find someone else to love he can still be a good dad even if you are not together. Just make sure you stay in touch with him for the sake of your child especially now that he is at war. Best wishes
2006-09-12 18:37:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
as long as he is willing to be a good father to your child and to support that child financially and emotionally, he should be allowed to be a part of your child's future.
if he is a good for nothing, then the child would be better off without him.
2006-09-12 18:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by miss advice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel something for him, then stay, if you do not feel anything then move on.
2006-09-12 18:37:01 · answer #6 · answered by joey 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats up to you. dont choose over yahooo answers.
2006-09-12 18:37:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋