I'm a decent looking guy but am having a tough time with dating because of what I assume to be a reaction to my open-style of communication.
2006-09-12 11:35:11 · 11 answers · asked by hockey70 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The right woman for you will appreciate your style. If they're not feeling you when you're being yourself and open, don't put up a front for them.
2006-09-12 11:39:49 · answer #1 · answered by LaMorena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about what you do (job, school), where you come from, what you're looking for in a girl, what your plans are for the future. Be honest! Ask her questions also, don't rush and talk about yourself a lot to impress her, trust me she won't be, she'll think you're too cocky.Those are the basic things that I would like to know, after that things would come up gradually like previous relationships and other serious stuff that need to be mentioned. The first couple of dates are more of the "getting to know each other" stages, so you don't want to lay it on too thick.
2006-09-12 18:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by LilSo1287 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just want to c if there is a chemistry and if we have anything in commom. I wasn to make sure he doesnt smoke, that he is single and doesnt ahate his mother. Its not important to ask anout last relationships right away or tell eachother when the last time u had sex was. He doent need to be an open book right away but anything like diseases or psychosis is a dealbreaker for me.
2006-09-12 18:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by europe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how open you are. On a first date we( or at least I) don't want to know your whole history and all your secrets. Take it slow and remember to give the girl a chance to talk and take a genuine interest.
2006-09-12 18:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by Unicorn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a guy who feels like he can trust me. I want him to be able to share certain things up front--his fears, family stories (as long as they're not overly frightening), semi-embarrassing stories.
Wait awhile on the evil ex-girlfriend stories, the stories about you walking in on your mom in the shower, stories about the night you got drunk and slept with random girl X, anything truly criminal, or saying "I love you." Granted, those are extremes, but you get the idea.
Not ALL girls will scare easily with those things, but most will.
2006-09-12 18:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by Esma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would want to know is:
1Are you married or dating someone
2Do you have any cooties that I should know about
3Do you have a history of treating women like crap
Other than that what would you have to talk about on the other dates?
2006-09-12 18:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Bridezilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanna know the truth.. everything that come out from your mouth has to be true. But dont' tell me something that might scare me away yet..tell me the nice things first..if I like you the later scary truth might not be bad at all
2006-09-12 18:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just see how the conversation goes. I DON"T want to hear about the other women in your life, though. If you have chemistry, it will all fall into place
2006-09-12 18:41:59 · answer #8 · answered by just cruisin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being honest is the key...but don't talk about yourself the whole time, chic don't dig it! Girls like guys with style, humor and of course listening skills.....find out about her interests and likes and dislikes...you'll do just fine:) good luck:)
2006-09-12 18:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open up WIDE! they need to know if they like u. be yourself though
2006-09-12 18:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by AFI Obsessed Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋