There's this girl in my class that I like, and I want to know her better so I can ask her out someday, I've been nice to her and we have chated sometimes, but I think I'm just a bit shy to keep a conversations going. She's also always sorrounded by a massive pack of girls, and I'm not that good-looking either. What can I do?
2006-09-12 11:38:38 · 19 answers · asked by ESKORBUTIN 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, all you need is confidence. Girl don't care about looks near as much as guys do. Be bold, but not overbearing. You need to talk to her some more. If you can't talk to her, you may find out that you aren't really that interested in her after all. The important thing is that you do something. Even if things don't work out, at least you'll know and not always have to wonder.
2006-09-12 11:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by ineedalotofyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all, check the way you look, because looks are the first immpression. If you are ugly, or handsome, make sure your hair is in style, your skin has no more than four blemishes, and you look awake. Your clothes need to be hip too. If you are fat, I would probabally give it up, sorry, but you can become a 'just a friend.' The next thing you need is confidence around others, but when you talk to her act all innocent, but interested, because girls don't like players. Then tell her she smells nice, that always works, because it doesn't mean your staring at her, it means your taking in her precense. Hope that helps.
2006-09-12 18:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by unknown 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should just be honest with her and tell her how you feel. If she likes you back, then thats awesome. IF she doesn't, well then, that will be okay too. Looks are not the most important thing in the world and anyone who base love on looks is not the kind of person you should want to be with any how. But really, just tell her...you'll never know until you do. Good luck!
2006-09-12 18:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by catalina_love2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find things to keep the conversation going. When she tells you her plans for the day, the next day ask her about them and how they went. Give her compliments on her work in class or about her new haircut or whatever.
I do that with my friends, lol, so I'm sure they would work for a guy 'cos when I do this stuff, my friends are happier.
2006-09-12 18:43:03 · answer #4 · answered by pacific_crush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. you have a few options.
Either be brave and talk to her around her friends, or you could call her, IM her, or also see if she wants to go to lunch or something like that. Another think u may want to try is going to a movie with her. I like this girl a few streets up from me and we are trying to plan a movie for this weekend. Also if you have trouble keeping conversations going, you could talk about something random like what sports is she interested in and stuff like that
2006-09-12 18:45:10 · answer #5 · answered by matrx1221 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go over and ask her to the movies. All she can say is "no".
Ask her friends if you can speak to her alone for a second. Chances are she will say yes if she doesn't feel the pressure of her peers surrounding her.
If she doesn't say yes, you won't spend all your time thinking about what could happen. Instead, you know how she feels and you know you can move on. Remember, women love confidence!
2006-09-12 18:44:03 · answer #6 · answered by Elkie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy and just go for it i got the same problem and tommorow im asking her out.Just as i was told go for it talk about a class a sport something she does,but if u ask her and she says no act like it never happened and there are plenty of other girls in the world to go out with if she says no.
2006-09-12 18:42:21 · answer #7 · answered by comediankid4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, u shouldn't be so negative about your self. girls can pick that sort of vibe up. so be more confident.
2nd you need to try to get her away from her friends. ask her if u can talk to her in private. and say please. lol
3rd tell her how u feel. if she sees that u are being open with her she may give u a chance.
good luck 2 u! :-)
let us know what happens.
2006-09-12 18:46:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if the two of you could go hang out after school. Try talking to her at lunch... Just some ideas....
2006-09-12 18:41:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be shy. talk to her when she's not with her girls because I know that would embarrass me. Talk to her alone or write her a note. maybe ask one of her friends for advice. they know her best after all. good luck!!
2006-09-12 18:41:54 · answer #10 · answered by C M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋