Family & Relationships - 11 September 2006

to me he looks like an idiot, do any girls really find him attractive?

2006-09-11 04:36:31 · 18 answers · asked by baseball_saenz 2 in Singles & Dating

It's a sad day 9/11 I think we all need to smile and not be sad and depressed....

2006-09-11 04:36:12 · 2 answers · asked by Lovely B 3 in Friends

I am the so called nasty mother-in-law. I first met my future daugther in law. We took them all on a exotic vacation. I was very excited my son (24) had met someone, he had been hurt in a previous relationship. I am trying to be unbias in this response. They were told to pay airfare and their own spending money and we would take care of everything else. It was our 25th anniversary. (With our other son and his girlfriend they saved to pay airfare and spending money they are high school kids)
At the last minute, we had to pay their airfare or risk losing the cost of the vacation, then they came with only 50.00, charged every thing to our cabin even a present for us. That was not a good start. It got worse, we tried to help them get started loaning them money, and when they came to the house they took food. Which is ok we dont want them to starve. Then when I was on business travel they came again and took other things. My son took her student loans in her name cause she could not get them in her name, so she went to college and he worked. She could not get a part time job due to the fact she was carring a 12 hour credit load. My husband and I went through college working fulltime and going to school fulltime so we were a little put out at this. I think the last straw was when I found out I didnt have cancer but they had to remove an ovary (I am 45) and she stated "why dont you just have it all cut out". From one woman to another that was mean. I am a bit of a pain in the *** to my son, I want him to finish college he has less than a year and she made it clear he was not going to finish she was in control. Last straw was she invited my husband to wedding and not me. How am I suppose to be nice to this woman. They take our money borrow and loan but i am not good enough to go to the wedding. My heart is broken but I will stay away I wish my son a happy life but I dont want to be part of this soap opera anymore. I am trying to get over this we were a close family before and it is hurting all of us. Aunts, uncles, grandparents. I would appreciate any help on this. My husband and I are lost, we felt we provided a loving and caring environment, we coached, room parents, worked extra jobs to send him to private schools and summer adventures. Did I expect too much having him finish college. He was at Cornell at 17 and and is quite brilliant. Now he is working a construction job and is almost bankrupt, we had to stop helping them with money. Maybe we did too much. So with out other son we do not want to even meet his girlfriends anymore. What happend to our dreams for our son to reach his potential??? He is at fault here he left without saying good bye and moved to another part of the country. So i am the horrible nasty mother in law. I suspect the anger I feel will keep me from a distance.

2006-09-11 04:36:05 · 6 answers · asked by Have S 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I would do it for free of course!

2006-09-11 04:35:48 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-09-11 04:35:40 · 5 answers · asked by dakotaboo_2000 2 in Family

2006-09-11 04:35:18 · 12 answers · asked by crissy 1 in Friends

for marrige, and how do you know when to propose.

2006-09-11 04:34:56 · 13 answers · asked by Scatman 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Named Rebecca Delong
I met her she's nice She lives in Mt.Pleasant Mi!

2006-09-11 04:34:15 · 12 answers · asked by Rebecca D 2 in Friends

At what age willl you let your teenage daughter date and what are your main concerns? Serious answers only, please and thank you.

2006-09-11 04:33:43 · 13 answers · asked by kmday1130 3 in Family

who is currently separated or divorcing?

2006-09-11 04:33:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

after you'd broken up ofcourse...

2006-09-11 04:32:24 · 31 answers · asked by sacred_90 2 in Singles & Dating

Are we normal?? I really want to kiss him,but the problem is everytime he gets near me and almost puts his lips on mine,I get very nervous and tell him that I'm not ready with a kiss yet.Now it has been 4 years,and he never gets to kiss me.I feel so guilty.What should I do??

2006-09-11 04:31:24 · 20 answers · asked by Lionel Messi Rulez 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends 10 yr old daughter saves the tags from any and all items that are bought for her. She also save other odds and ends. The tags are scattered in baskets and there seems to be no reason for this. She is given everything she needs in daily life but still feels the need to save this stuff. She also is constantly rearranging her room and is very adament about what is hers.

2006-09-11 04:31:11 · 10 answers · asked by GRISSIOM PURE GENIUS 3 in Family

Instead of hiring a lawyer, can we come to an agreement for visitations? I was thinking about writing a letter and getting it notarized.

2006-09-11 04:30:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was getting ready for work, here in California, got to work and got sent home for the day. watched this whole thing on T/V while trying to get a hold of my sister in NY (took me 9 hours to get to her) and my brother in law (who works for FDNY) could not speak to him though because he was at ground zero helping.....

I want to wish all my love to you that lost someone on 9/11/01, I did not lose my brother in law but know that alot of people did lose someone and it so so sad, and I am sorry

I am here right now listening to all the names being read....and to all of you I am sorry

2006-09-11 04:30:31 · 34 answers · asked by WTF !!!!!!! 4 in Family

2006-09-11 04:29:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What do you think ?

2006-09-11 04:28:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i really need good advice

2006-09-11 04:27:11 · 17 answers · asked by smartygirlmisbah 1 in Friends

Please give me your honest, truthful answer, thanks.?
Ok.. this is what a girl that i like replied to my email, askin how she felt about me,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

ok, now shes 13 I'm 15. We've been friends since like I wuz 7. Now it is totally obvious, because she makes herself perfectly clear, that she wants nothing more than to be friends. I am respeceting that, and giving her space, we havent talked about it 4 3 weeks. My question is, does she like me at all, or is she scared, cuz she says she doesnt want to ruin a friendship??

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But, like a few months ago, it was completely obvious she liked me, I mean people thought we were dating, then she found out I liked her, and she reall backed off. And she told her mom, who she is really close to , that she is really scared, because she doesnt want to take the chance of ruining the friendship. But what should I do/ think:? Because, now she is like totally all over these other guys, like she used to be with me, and it rips my heart out. And please dont tell me I'm to young, I have like many girls, but none like her. I've been trying to let this go forever, but it is really really hard, because I really care for her, I would do anything in this world, anything to be with her, but I want her to be happy , and if shes not happy with me, thats fine. But what should i do?

2006-09-11 04:27:06 · 8 answers · asked by how many 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I was seeing this guy for 2 months then he breaks up with me because he said that things were moving to fast and he wasn't ready to make that commitment with just one person. He also said that he didn't think that we were made for each other. Even though he said i was perfect and he couldn't ever imagine fighting with me. We still talk on the phone all the time and go out. While we are out he plays with my hair and finds every excuse to touch me in any way possible. Yet, he doesn't kiss me goodnight. He isn't seeing anyone else either, this I do know for sure. He said when we were dating that I never got on his nerves either. Also, he just recently told me not to cut my hair and let it grow cause its so pretty. I mean, what would you think?

2006-09-11 04:26:27 · 17 answers · asked by kay 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 04:25:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 04:25:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The person really dont meet your standards but they are nice in their own little way.

2006-09-11 04:24:36 · 5 answers · asked by cj05 1 in Singles & Dating

she found a pair or panty in my truck. I told her they where mine so now she going to dress me in the best answer. from my wife let him have it gals we both know the panty was not his dont we. So this will teach him a lesson. Dress him as a slut. make fun of him he going out dress like that.

2006-09-11 04:24:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If so, tell him: his MOM is desperately trying to get to him.

2006-09-11 04:24:27 · 1 answers · asked by Chrystell L. 1 in Friends

2006-09-11 04:22:45 · 18 answers · asked by cj05 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 04:22:28 · 17 answers · asked by starlight 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-11 04:22:18 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for about 3 years now, and he says he is not ready to move in togethor, start a family etc.... I love him to death and can't imamine life with out him. But how long do I wait?

2006-09-11 04:21:58 · 22 answers · asked by believesucceedfanfare 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

mmkay
so ive been with this boy for a while now
and i really liked him and from what his friends say he really liked me
last thursday a voice from his past(areally fat whore whom he used to date) came back into town
and the pot head cheated on me with her
and i found out at a football game
so i tried to move on and i gots me a new boy who is good to me
but it still hurts
that boy was mine
and i loved him
i just dont know
im hurt and i need to find out whats wrong
and should i woop her as
because she commented me on myspace and was like
im sorry you deserve better
she was really pissing me off
help?

2006-09-11 04:21:11 · 13 answers · asked by x3holdaloverclose 2 in Singles & Dating