boy meets girl(he cheated on me from behind)?

Question

mmkay
so ive been with this boy for a while now
and i really liked him and from what his friends say he really liked me
last thursday a voice from his past(areally fat whore whom he used to date) came back into town
and the pot head cheated on me with her
and i found out at a football game
so i tried to move on and i gots me a new boy who is good to me
but it still hurts
that boy was mine
and i loved him
i just dont know
im hurt and i need to find out whats wrong
and should i woop her as
because she commented me on myspace and was like
im sorry you deserve better
she was really pissing me off
help?

Answer 1

first of all...obviously it wasnt a serious relationship if you only heard that he liked you from his friends. if he really cared, he would have told you himself. i think you should focus on the present with the new boy and forget about the past. i doubt you really loved him because it seems like you are just pissed at this other ***** and you shouldnt even be worrying about the situation at all because if he cheated on you..that says alot on its own. it says: i dont like you! so why should you care? and the girl is right, you DO deserve better---so find it!

Answer 2

Are you twelve? Your boyfriend is to blame, too... if he's in a relationship with you (and one date isn't the same as a relationship) and he cheats... good thing he's gone, right? Being cheated on probably hurts (I don't know... I'm engaged and living with my partner 24/7 and I didn't get beyond a few dates with most other people), but it's best to have it out in the open. Don't date potheads and don't hold anything against the other girl (unless she knew you two were an item)... does it matter what she looks like, though? Either way you're going to feel awful! If she's prettier, you'll feel ugly; if she's uglier, you'll feel like a loser because he chose her over you.

Answer 3

honesty, lets be real here
now it took two make this happen

to me u sound like a sincere girl who actually loved this guy and he was the fool to cheat on you
its not the girls fought, she even said sorry u deserve better

u should actually praise this girl u know why
she save u time and energy from this guy
he would have done eventually i know its hard to digest but its true
in life, the most precious thing is time because time will past u by in a heart beat

now say for instance u would have dated this guy for an extrs 3 years and he will have done this to you
now not only did he break your heart u wasted 3 extra years with someone who didnt derservce u

good luck n move on to bigger n better things

Answer 4

One thing you are upset because you was not good enough to keep your boyfriend. Girls who are lacking what it takes often feels like this when the boy moves on to better things. Just accept the fact that you don't have what it takes and that you are not good enough. Lower your standards to a dog or cat but keep in mind that they may leave also.

Answer 5

You found your new guy .. what is in the past .. is in the past. Let it go . You will feel a lot better if you let it go and concentrate on your new guy. Good Luck ! :)

Answer 6

you should kick your old boys a$$ and that girl who is pi$$ing you off and then forget bout them you got a new man who treats you right stick with the new out wit the old :-)

Answer 7

Be the mature one outta this and let it go. You deserve much better than that.

Answer 8

That boy was never yours. Get over him, he will never be faithful to you. You are hurt that someone did this to you, not because you loved him.

Answer 9

you have the right to be mad at her, but just think, if he would of done it with her, than he would of done alot of others to, so maybe she did you a good thing, cause if he was going to cheat on you with her, she probally wasn't the only one, or wasn't going to be the only one, just don't think about it, good luck........

Answer 10

You are obviously young. There will be plenty more guys and plenty more drama. Let him go and forget about it.