Are we normal?? I really want to kiss him,but the problem is everytime he gets near me and almost puts his lips on mine,I get very nervous and tell him that I'm not ready with a kiss yet.Now it has been 4 years,and he never gets to kiss me.I feel so guilty.What should I do??
2006-09-11 04:31:24 · 20 answers · asked by Lionel Messi Rulez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry,it is 4 years and $ years..
2006-09-11 04:32:09 · update #1
I'm 16..and my bf is 17..I'm sorry Andrea..but I do love you so much!!
2006-09-11 04:48:26 · update #2
you are...its fine, just tell urself that u love him and practice on a photo or something. just close ur eyes when he wants to kiss and go for it
2006-09-11 04:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by maconheira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow 4 years and never kissed. Just kiss him when the time comes again or let him kiss you next don`t be nervous you 2 have been together for 4 years.
2006-09-11 04:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by flaw236 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie,Just relax and let it happen u have nothing to fear and if he has been patient this long then he does really care and is not going to hurt u or make fun and it is something u will always have butterflies over that is the thrill of the kiss and that is great when u after so many years still get them when u get ready to kiss just relax and enjoy your self.
2006-09-11 04:36:30 · answer #3 · answered by motherof319662000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not normal. You should now feel comfortable to kiss him after at least three weeks of the relationship. If you guys haven't had a kiss then it seem like, you guys are just friends.
2006-09-11 04:36:29 · answer #4 · answered by incredible 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he has put up with not kissing for 4 years then you got a good one most guys wont wait 2 days so just close your eyes and let it happen
2006-09-11 04:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by Waynes Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it. If the feeling comes back and you want to kiss him then block everything out and take that leap. Once you take that leap and overcome that fear you will realize what you've been missing. Just go for it.
2006-09-11 04:36:14 · answer #6 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU KNOW THAT HE WANTS IT TOO, THEN GO AHEAD AND KISS HIM. IT'S PRETTY MUCH JUST THE EXPECTATION OF THE KISS AND WHAT'S TO BECOME OF YOUR FUTURE LIFE WITH HIM THAT IS MAKING YOU FEEL NERVOUS. YOU DON'T KNOW IF IT WILL END THE RELATIONSHIP OR NOT. IF IT ENDS IT, THEN HE WASN'T WORTHY OF YOUR FRIENDSHIP OR YOUR LOVE. BUT IF IT CONTINUES, THEN YOU'VE GOT A GOOD STRONG BOND WITH THE LENGTH OF TIME YOU'VE ALREADY BEEN TOGETHER. SO I SAY GO FOR IT.
2006-09-11 04:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm kinda in the same situation as you, the only thing is i dont see him often and we are supposed to be 'friends'. I assume you just go with flow. You might just have to get sopme courage and take the first step. good luck
2006-09-11 04:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by curiosity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just kiss him there is nothing wrong with it. i had a girlfriend like you she never kissed me touched me held hands i couldn't even touch me i left her because i thought she didnt like me
2006-09-11 04:36:17 · answer #9 · answered by unkown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see a shrink. you have a real problem 4 yaers!! and he has not dumped you! you are very lucky.
2006-09-11 04:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by geminidrums 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋