Please give me your honest, truthful answer, thanks.?
Ok.. this is what a girl that i like replied to my email, askin how she felt about me,
well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later
ok, now shes 13 I'm 15. We've been friends since like I wuz 7. Now it is totally obvious, because she makes herself perfectly clear, that she wants nothing more than to be friends. I am respeceting that, and giving her space, we havent talked about it 4 3 weeks. My question is, does she like me at all, or is she scared, cuz she says she doesnt want to ruin a friendship??
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But, like a few months ago, it was completely obvious she liked me, I mean people thought we were dating, then she found out I liked her, and she reall backed off. And she told her mom, who she is really close to , that she is really scared, because she doesnt want to take the chance of ruining the friendship. But what should I do/ think:? Because, now she is like totally all over these other guys, like she used to be with me, and it rips my heart out. And please dont tell me I'm to young, I have like many girls, but none like her. I've been trying to let this go forever, but it is really really hard, because I really care for her, I would do anything in this world, anything to be with her, but I want her to be happy , and if shes not happy with me, thats fine. But what should i do?
2006-09-11 04:27:06 · 8 answers · asked by how many 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean she's never beenin a relationship, so she could be scared, will anything ever happen in the future, I mean I am respecting her wishes, and she knows that, We havent talked about it for a long time, could anything possibly happen in the future??
2006-09-11 04:33:54 · update #1
You should enjoy your friendship. You are older than her, and at this age, there is a big difference in just two years. Boyfriends come and go, but friends last forever. She is a smart girl not wanting to risk something so precious.
Things may change in the future. But for now, give her time and be friends.
2006-09-11 04:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right then, she;s only 13 for one so she might think shes to young for a serious relationship. And lets be honest because you've been Friends for so long and you know each other so well .. theres non of that getting to know each other, so it goes in to the serious part straight away! And be honest it is ab it of a risk because of how good mates yous to are.? The best thing i could suggest from an older persons point of you, is stop been weird with each other, and just agree to put the question behind you both. then when your both older ( namely your Friend) Try again, see if you still have same feelings then you can both have an adult relationship.
2006-09-11 11:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by rochie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her wishes and don't push her away from u be patient and wait she'll come around if she is really romantically interested in u. U r older than her so u r more mature let her catch up to u good things come to those who wait and u'll get ur just rewards. meantime go out with ur other GF's and enjoy the life u have now. U'll have plenty of time to be serious not to mention that it may open her eyes to see what she is missing and other girls r enjoying.
2006-09-11 11:37:10 · answer #3 · answered by papabeartex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally know the feeling but mine turned out okay i am now with my best friend. it might just be me but i think that she likes you too and all those guys is just to make you feel the way that you are feeling right now. she is scared that if it does not work out that the friendship would be lost, but a relationship built on a friendship is always the way to go. if she wants space just give it to her and start moving on with your life then she would see that you are moving on and although you like her you are respecting her wishes. if she does not want to be with you then her loss because i know that there are many girls out there who would give anything to have a guy like you.
good luck and remember good guys are few and far between.
2006-09-11 11:37:28 · answer #4 · answered by katz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's scared. it's easy for girls to have crushes on guys, but sometimes when it's reciprocated it can be frightening. she's young, 13, stay friends with her right now. trust me, nothing could be better than you continuing the construction of your friendship right now. because if you start dating, and it ends bad, you risk burning that bridge forever. but if you build a friendship and you both mature... maybe later feelings will develop. you never know. so respect her stance, and leave it alone right now. as hard as it will be, just be her friend.
2006-09-11 11:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by jami p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she says she wants you as a friend, she might, but she obvioiusly likes you. But, you should respect her and just be her friend. She seems a little confused about what she wants so pushing her will probably cause problems. Just give her her space maybe she'll change her mind. Us women tend to do that from time to time
2006-09-11 11:33:19 · answer #6 · answered by B U Tiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should I?
2006-09-11 11:29:34 · answer #7 · answered by get_fund6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss her
2006-09-11 11:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by Shawti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋