I have been married 20 years, only guy I ever went out with. 2 kids, 1 in college, 1 in High School. For the whole time we have been married, he has screamed at the kids and I. He claims it's the only way he can get thru to us! I cannot count the number of times I have been called a $%^&% *****. He says it's cause he's so stressed out and we don't help him enough, not true. I have helped in our business each day for all these years. He keeps the checkbook, watches evrey cent I spend on food, etc.
When I took a job outside the house for extra money, it was, "now you are going to leave me for someone at your job".
The oldest can't wait to move away to college, sick of being screamed at all the time, and worries how I will be when he leaves home. The youngest is where I wonder if I am being selfish.
Are kids ok with divorce? This one is 16. I am sure when I leave, he will clean out our money. I'm scared what he would do if I took some to live on.
Any help would be great!
2006-09-11
08:46:03
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