we started making out and he asked how far i'd gone with a guy we've been together for over 2 months and i told him i'd slept with someone. well he seemed really hurt so to make it up to him we agreed it was only fair if he saw me topless and play with me. we are way to young for this what should i do because he'll probably expect it from now on but it goes against everything i believe in!!!
2006-09-11 08:53:29 · 17 answers · asked by sexycowgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-09-11 08:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
Why did you let him do it in the first place? Dont do anything without that your mind is not set at diong you'll only regret it in the end. Always do what you think is right for you and not what yourboyfriend or anyone else thinks, so if he ask again and you dont want to dont be affraid to use the word NO it wont hurt much just explain to him why its no if you think you need to.
2006-09-11 16:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by VANILLA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are uncomfortable with where things are going then you need to explain this to him and tell him you do not want to do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. Just because you made a mistake before does not mean you should do it again. Do not let him guilt you into doing something you do not want to. If he really cares for you then he will understand and support your wishes.
2006-09-11 16:01:30 · answer #3 · answered by David P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Trust me, you don't want to do anything you don't feel ready for. If he really makes a big deal about it, then it's not worth dating him. You shouldn't have to make up for having a past. Don't let him make you feel guilty. But if you think that you're too young for that, then why did you sleep with someone else? Be ready for that question, cuz that's what I would ask.
2006-09-11 16:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by ballybabt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let him know you want to take it slow and that you dont want to feel disrespected. and if hes like "you did it that one time" just be like "yah that was one time and i felt horrible afterwards. if you care about my feelings at all youd take it slow." also, it was only fair that you had to let him do that? what happened in your past has nothing to do with him and he has no right to judge whats fair or not because of previous relationships. he wasnt even in your life then. its none of his business. well maybe a little but he cant say whats fair. its your body, and your beliefs.
then again you said that you BOTH agreed..
hope i helped. good luck.
2006-09-11 15:59:58 · answer #5 · answered by Gina Smile 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing like starting at the top and working your way down. You know you have started something you cannot stop, and when he is done with you he will pass you on to his good buddies, get out now
2006-09-11 16:17:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont believe in it then you need to let him know. I wouldnt continue doing something that i dont belive in. I would just let him know how you were feeling and that because you felt bad for hurting him you thought that would make him feel better and not be mad but you dont want to continue doing that.
2006-09-11 16:06:11 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont let him manipulate you. Boys will tell you anything to have sex with you and to manipulate you. If youve already had sex, dont again until your married or more mature. Be yourself and be strong enough in what you believe in and know your own mind and heart. Tell him if he really has feelings for you he will respect you wholy and not pressure you into anything your not comfertable with. Like I said, dont let him influence you, you have your own mind and ideals.
2006-09-11 16:26:26 · answer #8 · answered by tiffany 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you believe in? Waiting until after marriage to have sex? If you don't want to have sex again till you're married, then be a little more careful about who you tell your past activities to.
2006-09-11 16:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by Snow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's against what you believe in then you need to stop doing it right now. Just talk to him about your beliefs and your boundaries. He should respect them if he cares about you at all.
2006-09-11 16:17:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,you took your top off and he played for awhile.whats the big deal! let him have his turn .you slept with a guy( guys),so whats a little playing with your top off going to do, may be the next time you can take your pants off.
2006-09-11 16:00:32 · answer #11 · answered by julie 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋